Apr 28, 2026 · 1:11:09
Jon Hamm on Good Hang with Amy Poehler
The Hang, in Short
Amy reunites with "tenderoni" Jon Hamm to talk Bad Bunny, baseball, and what Don Draper's doing now. But first, John Slattery drops in to explain how he auditioned for Hamm's Mad Men role only to hear "We already have this guy." The twist? They wanted him anyway. Slattery's first thought when meeting Hamm: "Oh shit. They certainly do have that guy." The two trade stories about their brotherly bond, though Slattery admits he sometimes asks himself "What would Ham do?" because Hamm's annoyingly competent at everything. They reminisce about improvising together on Wet Hot American Summer before Amy brings out the Ham Bones himself. The Golden Globe banter starts immediately. Hamm has two, remember.
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Hello everyone. Welcome to another
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episode of Good Hang. We have our old
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dear wonderful friend John Ham joining
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us today and we are so excited to have
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Ham Bones here today. We are going to
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talk about so much good stuff. We're
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going to talk about auditioning. We're
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going to talk about the best position in
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baseball. We're going to talk about Bad
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Bunny. We're going to talk about what he
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thinks Don Draper would be doing now.
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and we're going to talk about uh season
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two of his hit Apple show, Your Friends
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and Neighbors. John is just such a dear
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tenderoni underneath all that Superman
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muscle. And um so we're going to get
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into it today, but we're going to start
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um our episodes like we always do by
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talking to somebody who knows John. And
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uh we've got a great one today. We have
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Roger Sterling himself, John Slatterie,
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an incredible actor,
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director, writer, wonderful person who
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is like kind of one of John's chosen
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brothers. So, let's see what he has to
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say. Um, and get him on Zoom. Hi,
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All I ever wanted.
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>> Hi.
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>> Wow.
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>> Well, we're doing it. Slattery. I'm
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going to talk to Ham about this, but I
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just finished a Mad Men rewatch, by the
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way.
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>> Whoa.
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>> Wow.
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>> How long did that take you?
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>> A couple months. God, Roger Sterling is
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such an incredible character. such a
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complicated
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guy that you just cannot help but love
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and half the time you're like why do I
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love this guy?
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>> Although I mean not just him I think
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everybody had despite their
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wrongheadedness or whatever moment like
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just when you thought well this is just
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somebody who thinks like this
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they're do something incredibly human or
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funny or touching or whatever. I mean,
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he's that, you know, that thing those
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all those characters had that.
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>> Okay. So, did you and Ham know each
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other before you worked on Madmen?
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>> So, you met when
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>> I auditioned for his part and they said
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and I I remember call I called my agent
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back and was like, "Are you sure this is
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their part?" Cuz you know, I was beyond
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that age and they were like, "That's
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what they want." So, I did all my
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homework and went in and read. And then
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Matt and um Allan Taylor were there and
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then they said, "Okay, so here's the
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thing. We already have this guy."
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>> And I said, "Excuse me?" And they said,
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"Well, your part isn't really visible so
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much in the first episode, so there
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wasn't much for you to read. We didn't
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think you'd come in." And um I was a
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little like And then, you know, he said,
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"But I promise you this will be a great
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part." So then I met him and I was like,
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"Oh shit." You know, well, they
- 3:31
certainly do have that guy. Like I
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realized, you know, oh that's what that
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guy looks like. Of course.
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>> Yeah.
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>> And then day one, he just sent me a
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picture the other night,
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two nights ago of the of his TV some
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wherever he was and and it was him at at
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the desk and me sitting across with a
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drink. And I said and I could tell from
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the suit and like my hair was diff
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something and I said, "Is that day one?"
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And he said, "Yeah,
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>> no way."
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>> Yeah. I mean, what's so satisfying about
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your relationship from afar is that the
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relationship you had on the show felt
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very brotherly. It really felt like big
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brother little brother energy. And if
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and is or is your relationship like that
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too? It feels like it.
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>> I think our relationship is more sort of
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equal like our age doesn't really come
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into it so much.
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>> Um
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>> and also he's such a competent person.
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It isn't like I have anything to teach
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him. It's often the other way. I was
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thinking about like well what would I
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ask him? What would I And it was um who
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does he look to for answers cuz
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sometimes I actually think what would
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Ham do like in a certain situation or
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whatever cuz he's just is you know he is
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good at most everything he puts his hand
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to and smart and accomp all that stuff
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and you kind of so so our relationship
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was more just kind of you know brotherly
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but not like a a
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older, younger, like it is in the show.
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>> What do you think makes John so
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competent in your words, like so good at
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so many things,
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>> you know, you have to be smart
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emotionally to be that funny and as you
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know, you know, you have to be observant
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and you have to listen and you have to
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so all that stuff
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goes into being good at very different
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things. I mean, he's it makes sense that
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he's as good at drama as he is at comedy
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because it's it's something that he's
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paid attention to
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for a long time. I mean, when I was a
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kid, I couldn't I would stand in front
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of the television. I wouldn't even sit
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down. I would just stand there with the
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clicker and go from Oscar Madison to
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Derek Jacabe to, you know, just get a
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chunk and then click go to get another
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one and see what I just get a piece of
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this and a piece of that. When it got
- 5:54
slow or commercial, I'd go off to some
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other, you know, just like
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just a you know, a civ open just just
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wanting to I don't know why. I don't
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know what it was, but I just like
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wanting to to absorb everything. Wow,
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that's such an interesting and true
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observation is that when I watch TV, I
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watched it like what I imagine athletes
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do when they watch sports where they're
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watching for,
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you know, same. I watched performances
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unconsciously or subconsciously
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to get an idea of how to do it.
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>> My mother was a big movie fan. My dad
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was too, but my mother would she'd go,
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"Come in. You have to watch this." this
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and I'd have my coat on on my way out. I
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was like in high school or whatever and
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she'd go come and watch you have to
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watch this and I Sunset Boulevard or
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whatever some and I'd go like I have to
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go and she'd go just 5 minutes just
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watch. And then an hour and 20 minutes
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later I'd be sitting on the couch with
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my coat on next to her watching movie. I
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said I watched at her funeral I was
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saying I watched more movies with my
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coat on because I was you know sucked
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in.
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>> Yeah. Yeah. Well um Slatterie I love
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seeing you. I I'm
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>> You, too.
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>> I hope we get to hang out in some real
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way again. We We got to be on a We got
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to do a um a couple scenes together once
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on a silly show called Wet Hot American
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Summer in on Netflix. We got to perform
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together and it was really fun. So, I
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hope we get to do something again
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someday soon.
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>> Me, too. You know, I remember being so
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impressed that
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the difference between my own ability to
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sort of improvise and yours, which was
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like, oh, that's how that's a person who
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knows how to improvise on story, like
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not just
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divert and use some nugget that you have
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saved up or something, but like that you
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could do stuff
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that had to do with the actual action of
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the scene. And I was just sort of you
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and John early. I was watching this
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thing and I was thinking, man,
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>> these people are
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>> this is this is this is different.
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>> Well, when you don't quote remember your
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lines, you have to you have to have a
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trick.
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>> Yeah.
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>> You know, you have to you have to be
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like, look over there.
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>> Well, Slatterie, love you. Love seeing
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you. Give lots of love to Talia. Please
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give her my love.
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>> Will do. And um thank you so much for
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this and I'm sure Ham will be so happy
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that we talked.
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>> Have fun. Say hi to Ham.
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>> All right, buddy. Thank you so much.
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Okay, talk to you soon. Bye.
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>> Immediately.
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>> hi. Oh my god. Okay,
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first of all, I'm so deeply deeply happy
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to see you.
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>> Same, buddy. Same.
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>> I can't It's been way too long. I
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haven't seen you in forever.
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>> Yeah. But I've been watching your
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podcast as I do for uh all my friends.
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But you I just love what you've done
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with the place and this it's I remember
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doing
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>> with Nick Offerman a million years ago,
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Smart Girls at the party. And I knew
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then
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>> you did
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>> that you had your finger on the pulse of
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something very very special and cool.
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And I'm glad that this is the further
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extension of that because it makes me
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very happy for you.
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>> Thank you for saying that. God, you've
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done so many favors for me. Um, but you
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did a you and Nick and a bunch of people
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did a
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>> I made you have a baby. That's like
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>> we have so much to talk about. I
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literally was not pregnant when the week
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started.
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>> I know.
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>> THAT WAS CRAZY.
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>> AND THEN BY THE END
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>> that was crazy
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>> having a baby.
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>> Well, and also you know what's amazing
- 11:18
about that is that there is a physical
- 11:20
marker of that time.
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>> I know. And it like we have known each
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other now for we're getting up on the
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>> 20 years.
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>> 20 years which is
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>> which seems crazy. It seems impossible.
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It does. Everything that I think is 10
- 11:33
years now is 20 years. You
- 11:35
>> know, pandemic really threw a whole
- 11:37
weird thing in that.
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>> And the 80s to us are the 80s to our our
- 11:42
kids are what the 20s were to us.
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>> Yeah, exactly. They're like, "Oh, the
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roaring 80s when everybody wore
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tuxedos."
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But I want to start John Ham.
- 11:54
Um, the last time we saw you, you were
- 11:56
getting on a hot air balloon on this
- 11:58
podcast.
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>> Yes, I was I was on I think was I was on
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a hot air.
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>> You were shooting on a hot air
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>> medius rest
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>> and I hope you heard both the Adam Scott
- 12:05
and Paul Red episode because we talked
- 12:07
about you a lot
- 12:10
and
- 12:12
you know we have talked about you on
- 12:15
this podcast and that like early
- 12:18
grouping of guys and it does feel very
- 12:21
fun and magical to talk about it not
- 12:23
only because everybody was young and
- 12:24
like just beginning but it is feels kind
- 12:27
of wild that you all met. Yeah, it's
- 12:29
crazy. I mean, it's it's absolutely
- 12:31
crazy. Through Paul, honestly,
- 12:33
>> um here's how it started.
- 12:34
>> Tell us the how the Avengers assemble.
- 12:37
>> Yes, truly. At this point,
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>> um Paul went to
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>> Paul's an Avenger, right?
- 12:43
>> Is an Avenger. Ant-Man.
- 12:44
>> Okay, that's an Avenger
- 12:45
>> apparently.
- 12:46
>> Yeah.
- 12:48
>> Avenging what? What? Why? Why you so
- 12:50
angry?
- 12:51
>> Cuz you have superpowers.
- 12:51
>> You got a shitty superpower. You turn
- 12:53
into ants. What the Come on.
- 12:55
>> Come on, dude. Wrap it up. You did it.
- 12:57
Grow up.
- 12:57
>> Grow up. Literally
- 12:58
>> Ant-Man.
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>> The next The next movie is Grow Up.
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>> Grow up, Antman.
- 13:08
>> Okay.
- 13:09
>> Anyways, um Paul is from Kansas City,
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Missouri. Yeah,
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>> I am from St. Louis, Missouri.
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>> Right.
- 13:14
>> Paul went to the University of Kansas.
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My dear friend Preston Clark was his
- 13:18
roommate freshman year at the University
- 13:21
of Kansas.
- 13:22
>> Paul would come back with his roommate
- 13:24
Preston to visit St. Louis, holidays,
- 13:28
long weekends, what what have you.
- 13:30
>> Um, and we that's when we got to know
- 13:33
one another. I was probably a a senior
- 13:35
in high school and he was a freshman in
- 13:37
in college.
- 13:37
>> So that makes sense because there is
- 13:39
this big brother energy that Adam and
- 13:41
Paul have with you where you where you
- 13:43
feel like they're big brother. You're
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only
- 13:45
>> weird two or three years older.
- 13:46
>> No, younger. I'm I'm younger than Paul
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and older than Adam.
- 13:50
>> Oh, really?
- 13:52
>> Yeah.
- 13:53
>> But RD gives
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>> Paul also doesn't age and He has made a
- 13:56
deal with the devil.
- 13:57
>> There's there's a very terrible painting
- 13:59
somewhere that is just really rough.
- 14:02
>> But he gives you a lot of big brother
- 14:03
energy in the way he talks about you.
- 14:05
It's interesting. Why do you think that?
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>> I don't know. I don't know why. I mean,
- 14:08
I think I've always You probably have
- 14:10
had this experience with me, too. I've
- 14:12
always represented older than I am.
- 14:15
>> Yeah, I've heard you say that.
- 14:16
>> Even when I was like a little kid, I was
- 14:18
not little kid, but like when I was a a
- 14:20
teenager, they were like, "You're buying
- 14:22
the beer." Is it cuz you know cuz you
- 14:25
look kind of old. I'm like what? Thanks.
- 14:27
>> Is it cuz you were tall?
- 14:28
>> Tall. I have a deep voice. I I got a I
- 14:31
got a beard early. Like I was just I
- 14:32
don't know what it was. But it was it
- 14:34
was very much that
- 14:35
>> Yeah.
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>> I played all the adult roles in co, you
- 14:38
know, like the
- 14:39
>> high school and college,
- 14:41
>> the real fun dad roles,
- 14:42
>> you know, great,
- 14:44
you know, and then like who's afraid of
- 14:46
Virginia Wolf when I'm like 19. like
- 14:48
>> you should talk to Paula Pel who also
- 14:50
talks about she always did the old like
- 14:52
>> same same thing same energy there was
- 14:54
something there I don't know
- 14:56
>> I mean I I don't know but anyway so
- 14:58
that's that's how I met Paul this and
- 15:00
we're talking like 1989
- 15:02
>> right
- 15:03
>> maybe
- 15:03
>> so you're in Missouri when you know each
- 15:05
other and you do you say to each other I
- 15:07
want to be an actor so do I
- 15:09
>> Paul uh decides he wants to be an actor
- 15:12
he transfers from the uh University of
- 15:14
Kansas to uh the American Academy of
- 15:16
Dramatic Arts in Pasadena That's where
- 15:18
he meets Adam,
- 15:19
>> right? I see. Adam's a California kid
- 15:21
that
- 15:21
>> California kid who came down from Santa
- 15:23
Cruz.
- 15:24
>> Um, and then we all then this would have
- 15:26
been in the early '9s. I graduate
- 15:29
college. I come out here in '94, '95,
- 15:31
something like that. And we all there's
- 15:33
this little percolating group of friends
- 15:35
that nobody has a job. Um,
- 15:38
>> well, that's what I'm kind of
- 15:39
>> except Paul. Paul was already famous
- 15:41
like he he had gotten
- 15:44
>> early success with whatever it was. Um,
- 15:48
>> Romeo and Juliet maybe. Yeah. Clueless.
- 15:50
>> Clueless and Romeo and Juliet kind of
- 15:52
were back to back.
- 15:52
>> But what's fascinating is you unlike
- 15:54
some other people who like go through a
- 15:56
pipeline before you start working like
- 15:58
you know the like the a Giuliard
- 16:00
Conservatory or like Second City or
- 16:02
whatever, you kind of go cold into LA.
- 16:06
Come in, arrive.
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>> I knew one person, Paul.
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>> That was it. And I had an aunt and uncle
- 16:12
that lived out here, so I had a I had a
- 16:14
a place to to stay.
- 16:15
>> Yeah. Um, and then I moved, you know, I
- 16:18
found found an apartment, found a house
- 16:19
to live in out in Silver Lake, which was
- 16:21
very, you know, urban pioneering back
- 16:23
then. Wasn't cool. I mean, it was cool,
- 16:25
but it was very out on the edge.
- 16:27
>> Yeah. The swing you took to come out
- 16:29
here is very impressive to me because it
- 16:31
is like, did you grow up knowing any
- 16:34
actors?
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>> Did you know anyone that was an actor?
- 16:37
>> No.
- 16:37
>> And did you when you were in high school
- 16:40
and like like when did you did you do
- 16:42
plays? Were you like were you like the
- 16:44
jock that did plays? Yeah, my high
- 16:46
school was one of those magical places
- 16:49
that you were just encouraged to do
- 16:52
everything. You weren't siloed. If you
- 16:54
were a jock, you weren't just that.
- 16:56
>> Yeah.
- 16:57
>> And it was small,
- 16:58
>> but everybody kind of knew each other.
- 17:00
My graduating class was 95 kids.
- 17:02
>> Yeah.
- 17:02
>> So, I knew everybody in my class, and we
- 17:04
we were kind of all friends. Like, you
- 17:06
were friends with the violin kid, and
- 17:07
you were friends with the
- 17:09
>> weird uh beautiful artist, and the kid
- 17:11
that could sing opera somehow at 16, you
- 17:14
know. There was a lot of talented kids
- 17:16
there. And in fact,
- 17:18
>> from my school,
- 17:20
>> Ellie Keer,
- 17:21
>> yes.
- 17:22
>> Was one of my students when I went back
- 17:23
to teach.
- 17:24
>> I know. So great.
- 17:25
>> Uh Heather Golden Hirs, who was Tony
- 17:27
nominated actress. Um Stephanie Sandits,
- 17:30
uh Leslie Stevens, all these kids that
- 17:32
uh Sarah Clark, who was in my class, who
- 17:34
was on 24,
- 17:36
>> um who dated Paul Rudd, believe it or
- 17:38
not. Um,
- 17:40
so we had this kind of weird
- 17:42
concentrated energy that was very
- 17:45
creative, but we were encouraged.
- 17:47
>> So it was I I didn't know any actors,
- 17:50
but I I thought, well, why not me?
- 17:52
>> And they were like, we need a Willie
- 17:53
Lman. We need We need a tired salesman.
- 17:56
>> We need an 18-year-old Willie Lman with
- 17:59
the weight of the world on his
- 18:00
shoulders.
- 18:06
>> Ham will do it. Do you ever feel though
- 18:08
that you like could have been a Were you
- 18:10
ever good in a sport enough that you had
- 18:12
like dreams like every
- 18:14
>> I thought I was going to be a I thought
- 18:16
cuz also the other half of my growing up
- 18:18
was my best friend John Simmons's dad
- 18:20
was a professional baseball player.
- 18:22
>> Ah
- 18:22
>> so I was like a professional baseball
- 18:24
player I didn't know a professional
- 18:25
baseball player and I was like man one
- 18:28
of these days me and me and John Simmons
- 18:30
we're going to be we're going to play
- 18:32
for the Cardinals together probably.
- 18:33
>> Uh what position did you play?
- 18:35
>> I was a catcher. You were catcher. Yeah.
- 18:38
>> I always think of the catchers as the
- 18:40
the little
- 18:40
>> stocky guy. No, I was kind of the I was
- 18:43
always I was always this shape. I was
- 18:44
always lanky.
- 18:46
>> Mhm.
- 18:47
>> Um
- 18:48
>> lanky.
- 18:49
>> Yeah. Right. Would you say I'm lanky?
- 18:51
Kind of lanky.
- 18:51
>> I mean, I don't want to describe your
- 18:53
body back to you, but I wouldn't use
- 18:54
lanky.
- 18:56
>> I I feel lanky.
- 18:58
>> Yeah.
- 18:58
>> Maybe. Am I using that word wrong? Well,
- 19:00
>> kind of long limbmed and
- 19:02
>> but I feel like you got shoulders. I
- 19:04
feel like Lang to carry the weight of
- 19:06
the world.
- 19:09
>> You need it for your briefcase.
- 19:11
>> All the both of the
- 19:12
>> sample cases that I Oh god.
- 19:16
>> Okay. So, catcher, which I have to say
- 19:18
in all I used to play softball and all
- 19:20
the positions I my two favorite
- 19:22
positions were catcher and second base.
- 19:25
>> Interesting.
- 19:26
>> Catcher because I felt like catcher
- 19:28
catcher. Yeah. You're in every play and
- 19:30
you're just like you're kind of like a
- 19:32
coach in a way. Yeah, a little bit.
- 19:34
You're telling everywhere to go and
- 19:35
you're running the running the room.
- 19:36
That's what I liked about it, too.
- 19:37
>> And second base for almost the opposite
- 19:39
reason, which is you're like, I I don't
- 19:41
I thought you had it
- 19:43
>> like second base is a little bit like
- 19:46
over here.
- 19:48
Like, you know, you're just like I
- 19:49
>> And honestly, in the hierarchy of who
- 19:51
gets to call like a popup, second base
- 19:53
is like the last.
- 19:54
>> Yeah. Second base is like I wanted to
- 19:56
get it. I just it was over I thought
- 19:58
>> closer to you.
- 19:59
>> But you can chat, you can chitchat a lot
- 20:01
in second base
- 20:01
>> and a short throw. short to first.
- 20:03
>> Oh yeah. I mean, I didn't have the arm.
- 20:04
I never had the arm, but I had the
- 20:06
mouth.
- 20:07
>> Okay. So,
- 20:12
>> so there was a party that was like, I'm
- 20:13
going to catch for the Cardinals. And
- 20:15
then
- 20:16
>> Yeah. And then I But here's here's what
- 20:18
it really was is that I realized
- 20:20
probably even when I was still in in
- 20:22
high school, I was like, "Oh, there's
- 20:23
people that are way better than me at
- 20:25
this." Like like way way way better than
- 20:27
me at this.
- 20:28
>> Yeah. And so I kind of like I was early
- 20:31
disabused of that notion. Very very just
- 20:33
I was kind of like
- 20:34
>> eh.
- 20:35
>> And also I realized that
- 20:38
>> and I have a lot of friends now that are
- 20:40
that are professional athletes and
- 20:41
you're like it's a job.
- 20:43
>> Yeah. Big time.
- 20:44
>> It's 24/7. Even in the offseason you're
- 20:47
training, you're training. So you better
- 20:48
love it.
- 20:49
>> I know.
- 20:50
>> And I was like I like it.
- 20:52
>> Yeah.
- 20:52
>> I don't love it.
- 20:53
>> I know. And with sports, um,
- 20:58
when I watched sports or when even when
- 21:00
I played sports, I was I didn't feel
- 21:02
like I was playing or watching to like
- 21:05
know how to do it for life.
- 21:08
>> You were enjoying it.
- 21:09
>> Yes.
- 21:09
>> It's like a hobby.
- 21:10
>> But with television and film, I
- 21:12
definitely watched it very intently.
- 21:14
>> Oh, me too.
- 21:15
>> Yeah.
- 21:15
>> So, to to put a point on the end of that
- 21:17
story of like not loving not loving it
- 21:19
enough to want to do it professionally,
- 21:21
I love what I do now.
- 21:22
>> Yeah.
- 21:22
>> I mean, I really do. Yeah.
- 21:32
>> of a career that you can look back on
- 21:34
and go, "Man, I'm I'm pretty proud of
- 21:35
that stuff."
- 21:36
>> Yeah.
- 21:37
>> I love that.
- 21:37
>> You did Shakespeare in Do you Sh Do you
- 21:40
did Shakespeare in theater?
- 21:42
>> Yeah. In college. Yeah.
- 21:43
>> Do you understand Shakespeare? What's
- 21:45
happening there?
- 21:47
>> I thought it was pronounced Hamlet.
- 21:49
Apparently, it's Hamnett.
- 21:50
>> Yes. I just found out it was Hammet.
- 21:51
>> Uh, no. I I I did I I really loved sh of
- 21:55
reading.
- 21:56
>> This is part of when when I kind of
- 21:59
figured out maybe I was going to be an
- 22:01
actor
- 22:02
>> is that I would read plays as a little I
- 22:05
read like a bananas weirdo when I was a
- 22:08
kid
- 22:09
>> because I was a single a single mom.
- 22:11
>> Yeah.
- 22:11
>> And an only child.
- 22:12
>> Yes.
- 22:13
>> So there was that was it. There were no
- 22:15
internet. There were no phones.
- 22:18
>> Uh video games were rudimentary.
- 22:21
>> Yeah. Uh, so it was about reading and we
- 22:24
had tons of books everywhere and I had a
- 22:25
library card. Um, so I would go to the
- 22:27
library, I would check out books and I
- 22:29
would check out comedy records.
- 22:30
>> Yes.
- 22:31
>> Those are the two things that I got.
- 22:32
>> What did you check out? Do you remember?
- 22:34
>> I mean, it was bananas that I was a
- 22:36
seven-year-old boy and I had like
- 22:38
Richard Prior records.
- 22:40
>> Yeah.
- 22:41
>> The name of which I will not say out
- 22:43
loud, but you can find out what it's
- 22:45
called.
- 22:46
>> Yeah. Um, and
- 22:49
but but also like Steve Martin, Bob
- 22:51
Newhart, George Carlin, like just the
- 22:54
stuff that was whatever was there.
- 22:55
>> And what were your series? What books
- 22:56
were you reading? Like what kind of
- 22:58
series did you love as a kid?
- 22:59
>> I read there wasn't really I don't I
- 23:02
don't remember there being like um YA,
- 23:05
you know, stuff like that. It wasn't
- 23:07
really like
- 23:07
>> I mean I I feel like Little House in the
- 23:09
Prairie was for us kind of
- 23:10
>> kind of which I didn't really read. It
- 23:12
was kind of for girls.
- 23:13
>> No, it was for girls. Um, but I read
- 23:15
>> it's for boys, too.
- 23:16
>> It is for everyone. It's a lovely story.
- 23:19
By the way, I did I did read I did read
- 23:20
those.
- 23:21
>> Um, I read plays
- 23:23
>> and it was it was something that I would
- 23:26
I don't know why I was attracted to them
- 23:27
or whatever. I think I was
- 23:29
>> you said earlier about watching TV and
- 23:32
like watching it to learn about it. And
- 23:34
that was what I thought the plays were.
- 23:36
And I would read them and I would read
- 23:38
them out loud to myself.
- 23:39
>> Yeah.
- 23:40
>> So my mom was like, "You're a weird
- 23:42
kid." Um, but it was I would that was
- 23:45
the f looking back I think that was the
- 23:48
first time I would think, "Oh, maybe I
- 23:50
want to do this for real."
- 23:52
>> Um, your mom passed away when you were
- 23:54
young when you were 10. What was she
- 23:57
like?
- 23:57
>> She was a a professional secretary.
- 24:01
>> She was a very accomplished lady. She
- 24:03
was the oldest of six kids.
- 24:05
>> Um, she was I don't know. She was just
- 24:10
she was my mom, you know. It was like
- 24:11
one of those I loved her.
- 24:13
>> We had an amazing relationship.
- 24:16
>> Um it's I say this to people all the
- 24:19
time. There's never a good time to lose
- 24:21
a parent. It stinks. It just does.
- 24:24
>> I lost my mom when I was 10, my dad when
- 24:26
I was 20,
- 24:27
>> but I have friends that are our age now
- 24:29
that just lost their parents that are
- 24:31
just as devastated.
- 24:32
>> Yeah.
- 24:33
>> So, it was um it was brief, but it was
- 24:36
significant.
- 24:37
>> Yeah. uh my relationship with her and
- 24:40
and I still have probably the closest
- 24:43
family member in my life is my aunt, her
- 24:45
younger sister,
- 24:46
>> who was the cool aunt cuz she moved out
- 24:48
here to California.
- 24:49
>> Yeah.
- 24:49
>> And that's who you lived with when you
- 24:51
came out here.
- 24:51
>> Yeah. My aunt Sue.
- 24:52
>> Yeah. Yeah. Because I mean I feels like
- 24:54
Hambones the the um theme of a lot of
- 24:58
your work and the things you do is like
- 25:01
like finding your family like collecting
- 25:04
them, choosing them, making it like and
- 25:07
you're in a you're in a business that
- 25:09
does that too.
- 25:10
>> Yeah. you kind of, you know, it's like
- 25:11
the circus comes to town and you make
- 25:12
new friends and
- 25:14
>> um, you know, being on a show as we both
- 25:17
were for an extended period of time,
- 25:20
>> you definitely you definitely forge
- 25:22
relationships that are that are pretty
- 25:24
solid, you know, and and and don't
- 25:26
really
- 25:27
>> uh dissipate once the once the circus
- 25:30
moves on.
- 25:30
>> Yeah, I know. If you're lucky.
- 25:32
>> If you're lucky. If you're lucky. And
- 25:34
that's the that's the thing you were
- 25:35
talking about, I think, with the people
- 25:36
part of it is like,
- 25:38
>> you know, you meet
- 25:39
>> we're all kind of crazy weirdos, you
- 25:41
know, with different talents, but boy,
- 25:43
you when you see when certain people
- 25:44
come through your orbit and you're like,
- 25:46
man, that that person's amazing at that.
- 25:49
>> Well, you must feel that way about
- 25:51
people, too, because
- 25:54
>> I mean, do you ever get this feeling? I
- 25:55
get this feeling a lot where like I meet
- 25:56
somebody and I'm like, oh, I you know,
- 25:59
we've known each other before in another
- 26:01
way
- 26:02
>> some a lot. And and I kind Am I wrong
- 26:05
that Slatterie feels like that for you?
- 26:08
>> Yeah, that's my big brother. If I if I
- 26:11
had a big brother, it would be him.
- 26:13
Yeah,
- 26:13
>> I was um
- 26:15
I was just watching I had I have not
- 26:18
watched Mad Men Back since uh
- 26:20
>> I just finished and I've been and I I I
- 26:24
think I say sometimes on this podcast
- 26:26
the best thing about knowing other
- 26:28
actors is sometimes you get to text them
- 26:30
and be like, "I'm watching your show
- 26:32
right now. You're so good." And I think
- 26:34
I just did that to you recently. You
- 26:36
watched it. Well, that must have been
- 26:37
the impetus for me starting it because
- 26:39
Anna, my wife Anna and I had hadn't
- 26:42
really wa I hadn't watched it back.
- 26:43
>> Wow.
- 26:44
>> Since the first time and um so we're on
- 26:47
like episode five or six now and I and I
- 26:49
text immedately texted
- 26:51
>> what happens. Don't tell me.
- 26:54
>> Um I texted slide took a picture of it
- 26:56
and texted Slattery and was just like
- 26:58
remember this day? It was the first day
- 26:59
we shot and I just remember all that
- 27:01
stuff and it was wild. It was very wild.
- 27:03
Obviously, that was 20 years ago, 15
- 27:06
years ago. Um, 20 years ago.
- 27:09
>> Well, we um I don't usually bring this
- 27:12
up early in the in the in the podcast,
- 27:14
but I will now because it makes sense.
- 27:16
So, you know, we do this thing where we
- 27:17
talk well behind somebody's back before
- 27:19
and we talked to Slatterie today
- 27:21
>> and he's the best and and he loves you
- 27:24
and
- 27:25
>> we talked about just that about and it
- 27:27
was funny because I said, "Do you feel
- 27:28
like a big brother to John?" And he said
- 27:30
in a very big brotherly way. He was
- 27:33
like, "I feel like we're equals. I feel
- 27:35
like I learn as much from John as he
- 27:37
learns from me. I feel like I'm not
- 27:38
teaching him things. I just feel like
- 27:39
we're um" But that's also a very big
- 27:42
brother thing to say, by the way.
- 27:43
>> Yeah. Yeah. And I mean, part of it was,
- 27:45
you know, it's funny for me, too,
- 27:47
because I remember the first couple
- 27:49
episodes or the first season of shooting
- 27:51
the show, and his son Harry was six, as
- 27:54
was Kieran, who played my daughter on
- 27:56
the show, Sally.
- 27:57
>> And now they're 26.
- 27:59
>> Yeah. this lightning and bottle thing
- 28:00
that just all of a sudden happens. I
- 28:02
point to mad men and and think like I
- 28:04
worked very hard to get in that room.
- 28:06
>> Well, I think a lot of people know this.
- 28:08
You worked hard and you grind you were
- 28:10
really grinding
- 28:10
>> for sure.
- 28:11
>> Like you you were working probably for
- 28:13
10 years in different in a lot of
- 28:14
different things and
- 28:15
>> not quite 10 but but but a solid six or
- 28:17
seven years a as as a working actor on
- 28:21
stuff that nobody watched. Mhm.
- 28:24
>> Um
- 28:26
just
- 28:26
>> did you ever get close to stuff where
- 28:28
you were
- 28:29
>> everything? I was I was the other guy
- 28:32
>> in every thing. And in fact,
- 28:35
>> the year I I got madman, I had I had
- 28:38
tested when we used to do that seven
- 28:41
times.
- 28:42
>> I'd gone to the network the last step
- 28:44
before you get hired.
- 28:46
>> Seven times
- 28:46
>> for seven different projects.
- 28:48
>> Seven different projects. 047.
- 28:50
>> What do you do? Do you remember what
- 28:52
some of them were? I don't really
- 28:54
>> like sitcoms and
- 28:55
>> stuff, you know.
- 28:56
>> Yeah.
- 28:57
>> That you know, and and in the old days
- 29:00
now it just feels like everything gets
- 29:01
gets produced.
- 29:03
>> In the old days it was like they do a
- 29:04
pilot, they'd test it, they'd see if it
- 29:06
worked, maybe you'd get fired, which I
- 29:08
did on several occasions.
- 29:10
>> Um and and it's it's such a bananas way
- 29:15
to do it, but that was the that was how
- 29:18
it was. And the Mad Men audition process
- 29:20
you've talked about many times, but it
- 29:22
was arduous.
- 29:23
>> Arduous. It started I started at the
- 29:25
very very bottom. The first
- 29:28
>> audition was a a pre-eread just reading
- 29:31
with the casting directors. They didn't
- 29:32
know my work. Not that they would. And
- 29:35
it was in Santa Monica and I lived in
- 29:38
Silverlake.
- 29:39
>> So it was like an hour and a half to get
- 29:41
across town in the rain on a Friday. And
- 29:43
I met them and there was another kid
- 29:46
sitting in the waiting room and he was
- 29:49
like it's like a 16 17 year old kid and
- 29:51
I was like in the right place like
- 29:52
what's he goes are you here for the
- 29:53
toothpaste dad? I go what? Uh no. Then I
- 29:58
was like what what toothpaste?
- 30:01
They're looking for somebody
- 30:03
>> an older guy the world on his shoulders
- 30:05
team
- 30:07
>> and it was literally they were casting a
- 30:09
the other room was a casting a
- 30:11
commercial and then this was they were
- 30:12
like no no no we're in here hi sorry
- 30:14
sorry and I was like hi nice to meet you
- 30:16
>> wow
- 30:16
>> the next day was another one of those
- 30:20
few days later was then more and more
- 30:22
people are in the waiting room then you
- 30:24
start to see people that have signed up
- 30:26
you're like
- 30:27
>> I recognize that guy's name he was on
- 30:29
sports night he'll probably get it Yeah.
- 30:31
>> Um, and it was that that that that
- 30:34
>> six, seven, eight times. And then they
- 30:36
finally I got to New York. They flew me
- 30:37
to New York
- 30:38
>> on somebody's miles.
- 30:40
>> Wow.
- 30:42
>> And uh
- 30:43
>> when you went in for that last one, did
- 30:46
you
- 30:46
>> The last one was was was meet the
- 30:48
executives. And Matthew Winer, to his
- 30:50
great credit, he goes, I I go, do I have
- 30:52
this job? Like what's happening? You're
- 30:53
flying me to New York.
- 30:55
>> Yeah. He goes, "I'm going to walk you
- 30:56
around the production office and I'm
- 30:57
going to introduce you as Don Draper and
- 30:59
you're going to act like you have the
- 31:01
job."
- 31:01
>> Oh god, that's giving me
- 31:05
>> and he's like, "Hey, we this is our Don,
- 31:07
you know, it's John. Say hi to the cat
- 31:09
the the costume designer and the hair
- 31:10
and makeup and we're going to do this."
- 31:12
And he's walking me around this whole
- 31:13
thing. And I'm like, I've not heard
- 31:15
officially from anybody anything.
- 31:16
>> Oh my god.
- 31:17
>> So then we go to to meet the executives
- 31:20
from AMC who are these four very young
- 31:22
executives.
- 31:24
>> Yeah. AMC was a young company. Brand
- 31:26
new. Hadn't done anything. And we go and
- 31:28
we have drinks and we're having a drink
- 31:29
and I'm with Matt and Scott Hornbach are
- 31:31
the two producers and and and the the
- 31:33
three executives and kind of holding my
- 31:35
drink and I'm like, "What what are we
- 31:37
what is this? What are we doing? Is this
- 31:39
this is if this is a prank?
- 31:41
>> This is the most elaborate, meanest
- 31:44
>> prank." Yeah.
- 31:45
>> And so we're having drinks and they're
- 31:47
like, "Here's to the show." And I'm
- 31:48
like, "Yeah, here's to the show."
- 31:50
And I drink the drink and we go and and
- 31:52
and and uh and I'm like we get it into
- 31:56
the elevator. They still haven't said
- 31:58
anything. And and uh and the lady who's
- 32:00
in charge finally turns to me. She goes,
- 32:01
"You know you got the job, right?" I go,
- 32:03
>> "Oh my god,
- 32:04
>> no, I didn't.
- 32:06
This would have been way more fun
- 32:08
earlier when we were having drinks to
- 32:10
toast." And I said, "No, we didn't." And
- 32:13
been and we go down the elevator and the
- 32:15
elevator doors open up. There's a
- 32:16
million paparazzi in the in the in the
- 32:18
lobby of the Maritime Hotel. And I'm
- 32:20
like, "Oh my god." Like, "Wow, that's
- 32:22
that was fast." Like, "Holy shit." But
- 32:25
they're all speaking German. I'm not
- 32:27
making this up. Uh in the elevator with
- 32:29
me was a very famous German football
- 32:31
player named uh France Beckenbower or
- 32:34
one of the like lions of the German
- 32:37
Bundesliga, what have you. And I was
- 32:41
like, "Oh, I was there for him. Never
- 32:43
mind.
- 32:45
>> GUYS, GUYS, GUYS, I'M NOT GIVING
- 32:47
INTERVIEWS YET.
- 32:48
>> Not yet.
- 32:48
>> Let me get some.
- 32:49
>> Let me just
- 32:51
>> Oh, in German. It's Yeah, that's him.
- 32:52
>> Okay, just a few madman questions. I
- 32:54
know you know the show is I just John.
- 32:59
>> I
- 33:00
>> that part you, that writing, that show,
- 33:03
that show is Hall of Fame.
- 33:07
>> Thank you.
- 33:07
>> And Hall of Fame performance.
- 33:08
>> I don't disagree. I think it's a it's a
- 33:10
great show. I was I was I was pleasantly
- 33:14
surprised watching it back to to to not
- 33:16
be mortified.
- 33:17
>> I'm so happy to hear that cuz it is just
- 33:19
pristine. And your performance is so
- 33:23
good, so measured, so controlled, and it
- 33:26
like all the characters in the show
- 33:27
starts to unravel in the perfect way.
- 33:29
>> It does pay off. That's what's really I
- 33:31
think really nice about the show is that
- 33:33
as it as it does unravel, it kind of is
- 33:35
a satisfying payoff for for kind of
- 33:37
everybody
- 33:38
>> thematically. This idea that like
- 33:41
The character of John Draper is being
- 33:43
presented in this way which we like
- 33:45
project all this stuff on him just like
- 33:47
we would any ad any version of like a
- 33:50
person and then we realize he is a
- 33:52
person like we all are like but
- 33:55
>> heavily flawed.
- 33:56
>> Heavily flawed but yet what I love about
- 33:58
the show is people change but not a lot.
- 34:01
Yeah.
- 34:01
>> So there's never like
- 34:04
>> Matt Matt has said and I think it's a
- 34:06
great way to describe it. He said, "I
- 34:08
want people to realize that the the
- 34:11
characters are are going to be just a
- 34:14
little bit better at the end. Just a
- 34:16
little bit."
- 34:17
>> Yeah.
- 34:17
>> You know, just a little change. And and
- 34:19
Don,
- 34:20
>> my god, you know, the the whole arc of
- 34:23
the final season is him sort of shedding
- 34:26
everything, his family, his job, his
- 34:28
stuff, his and he ends up on the end of
- 34:30
the continent.
- 34:31
>> Yeah.
- 34:32
>> At the very end of the continent. And
- 34:33
that's kind of when he realizes like,
- 34:35
"Oh, wait. I'm really good at this job.
- 34:37
I should probably just go back and do
- 34:38
the job that I'm really good at.
- 34:39
>> And my question to you is having
- 34:41
rewatched and I don't know if you
- 34:42
remember, but at the end you're uh Don
- 34:47
lets everything go, can you just tell me
- 34:50
about the scene in the group uh the
- 34:53
group therapy scene where that wonderful
- 34:57
day player, sorry I don't know his name,
- 34:59
actor
- 35:00
>> breaks down because he feels invisible.
- 35:03
Can you tell me about that day and
- 35:06
reading that because that's a big scene
- 35:08
to do at the end of seven seasons with
- 35:10
someone who's not
- 35:12
>> you don't know.
- 35:13
>> I don't I don't That was the whole last
- 35:16
half of that season for me
- 35:18
>> was being away from everybody that I had
- 35:21
spent
- 35:21
>> That's right.
- 35:22
>> 90 other episodes with.
- 35:23
>> That's right. That's right.
- 35:25
>> Slatty and I did our last scene. It's
- 35:28
kind of a It's kind of a weird little
- 35:31
nothing scene. It was just us in a bar
- 35:33
talking about something. And I said,
- 35:34
"You know, this is our last scene
- 35:35
together."
- 35:36
>> And he goes, "What?"
- 35:39
Cuz it was like three episodes before we
- 35:40
were done. He's like, "No, it isn't." I
- 35:42
go,
- 35:43
>> "Wow."
- 35:44
>> He goes, "No." I go, "Yeah."
- 35:48
And it was it's kind of great that it's
- 35:50
just that that moment. It's just that's
- 35:52
what it is. And then you don't see that
- 35:54
guy.
- 35:55
>> So, there was a lot of that stuff for me
- 35:57
and a lot of a lot of It was
- 36:00
tremendously difficult. Yeah,
- 36:01
>> cuz I was handling a lot of personal
- 36:05
Mishagos in my life. A lot of craziness.
- 36:07
And just being on a show for that long
- 36:09
>> is a lot.
- 36:10
>> And saying goodbye to it.
- 36:11
>> Saying goodbye to it. It's a grief. It's
- 36:13
a grieving process. You know it very
- 36:14
well.
- 36:15
>> Um, so that particular scene and we were
- 36:18
we we shot out of order. That wasn't the
- 36:20
last thing we shot obviously, but we we
- 36:23
were on location. We were up in Big Su.
- 36:25
>> Yeah. So we were even physically
- 36:28
separated from uh most the stages, all
- 36:31
the stuff
- 36:33
>> um our trailers. I was living in a hotel
- 36:35
like it was it was so it was like four
- 36:36
or five days in a row
- 36:38
>> up there
- 36:39
>> and it was heavy. It was super heavy
- 36:42
work.
- 36:42
>> Yeah.
- 36:43
>> Um
- 36:44
>> you I very much felt the weight of the
- 36:50
end of the show
- 36:51
>> and and the responsibility of like
- 36:54
>> don't this up. You can
- 36:56
anything else up, but you cannot
- 36:59
this up. This is the end of a very,
- 37:01
very, very long story, and if you
- 37:04
the bed on this, it's not going to that
- 37:06
will be what you are known for. Um, but
- 37:08
I do remember that thinking that this
- 37:11
kid is killing it. It was wonderful. And
- 37:13
um, everyone in the there were a lot of
- 37:15
like writers, interspers,
- 37:16
>> for those people that have never watched
- 37:18
Mad Men, don't listen to this part.
- 37:21
But it is there is a moment not to give
- 37:24
too much away for people that haven't
- 37:25
seen it but I mean it has been 20 years
- 37:27
but where past the spoiler part John is
- 37:30
like gone basically to like an eelin
- 37:33
like like retreat and to basically like
- 37:36
to your point he's lost everything and
- 37:38
he's in what is
- 37:39
>> an early version of group therapy and
- 37:42
the closest he's ever had to actually
- 37:44
really truly sitting in his feelings and
- 37:48
a man
- 37:50
>> another man who he doesn't know is
- 37:52
expressing this thing that John
- 37:55
understands really well.
- 37:57
>> Deep dissatisfaction, deep un un um
- 38:02
>> what's the right word?
- 38:02
>> Unworthiness. Unworthiness. Yeah. Maybe
- 38:05
not being loved.
- 38:06
>> Invisibility you said earlier that whole
- 38:08
kind of thing and there's a refrigerator
- 38:09
and all this. It's like it's a beautiful
- 38:11
piece of writing.
- 38:12
>> Um and it's it's an incredibly emotional
- 38:16
moment not only for this man but for
- 38:17
Dawn. And there's a there's a connection
- 38:19
that they have and
- 38:20
>> Okay. Well, I want to slow it down
- 38:21
because,
- 38:24
>> you know, I like to talk to the TV.
- 38:28
>> By the way, I did not know that, but I I
- 38:30
can imagine that. I'm an old lady. I can
- 38:32
imagine.
- 38:32
>> I also am an old person in in a young
- 38:34
younger person's body.
- 38:36
>> But I paused in this moment and I was
- 38:39
just like, this is John Ham. Like I was
- 38:42
like, this is like the the moment when
- 38:45
you approach and hug that man.
- 38:48
is such good acting. It's so you're it's
- 38:52
like John. It's so so good.
- 38:57
You you did stick the landing. You
- 38:59
nailed it.
- 39:00
>> I felt very very good about what I did
- 39:02
on the show.
- 39:03
>> And it was like it was like masculinity
- 39:06
which a lot of the show is about and we
- 39:09
are all like look like John Draper, John
- 39:12
Ham, Amy Polar. We're all like living in
- 39:14
a patriarchal world and trying to figure
- 39:16
it out. and suffering in different ways.
- 39:20
That moment when like two strangers, men
- 39:23
of that generation are hugging, it is so
- 39:26
moving.
- 39:27
>> Well, and it's because you don't really
- 39:30
Don gets there on under such duress and
- 39:33
it's such a strange journey that he ends
- 39:36
up there and he's he's lost this
- 39:38
connection with his his job, his his
- 39:40
family, his his everything. It's really
- 39:42
the Sedarta kind of moment of just shed
- 39:44
everything and to discover who you
- 39:46
really are. And there's a moment and of
- 39:48
course
- 39:49
>> the the opening sequence of the show is
- 39:52
this man falling out of a building and
- 39:53
everyone's like this is where he does
- 39:55
it. He's going to jump off the cliff.
- 39:57
He's going to kill himself. This is the
- 39:58
end of the show. He's going to die,
- 40:00
>> right?
- 40:01
>> And it's it could have gone that way. I
- 40:04
think there's a version of this story
- 40:06
where Don doesn't get it and doesn't
- 40:08
allow himself to understand it and is so
- 40:11
overcome with his emotion and his
- 40:14
feeling of inadequacy and failure and
- 40:17
what he's what he has failed at
- 40:19
>> as a as a husband, as a friend, as a
- 40:21
father, as a fill in the blank that he
- 40:24
does do that.
- 40:25
>> Y
- 40:25
>> but he doesn't.
- 40:28
>> Yeah. Yeah.
- 40:28
>> He kind of takes it in, takes the
- 40:30
moment, feels the feelings for real, and
- 40:35
has the moment of clarity where he goes
- 40:37
like, you know, and it's beautifully
- 40:39
rendered with Coke, the Coke ad, and the
- 40:42
iconic kind of moment of this, and he's
- 40:44
like, this is who I am. I'm an ad man.
- 40:46
>> So, he go, do you think he goes back?
- 40:49
>> Yeah.
- 40:49
>> And
- 40:51
where what do you think happens for the
- 40:53
rest of his life? Like, how what is the
- 40:54
what is the last act of Don's life? What
- 40:57
do you think it is?
- 40:58
>> Lung cancer.
- 41:04
>> Um,
- 41:04
>> yes.
- 41:05
>> I mean, for sure. Uh, I I think he goes
- 41:09
back. He is a successful advertising
- 41:11
executive and I think he finds happiness
- 41:13
and peace. I think he connects with his
- 41:15
children.
- 41:16
>> Yes.
- 41:17
>> Um, as we know, Betty passes away. Yeah.
- 41:21
Um,
- 41:22
>> you and January,
- 41:24
>> you and January, you and Lizzy, you and
- 41:27
Slatterie, you and
- 41:28
>> Christina, incredibly, incredibly lucky.
- 41:31
My one of my favorite scenes in the
- 41:32
whole show is the the the scene between
- 41:35
I can't remember. I think it's season
- 41:36
five, season 4 where we see Don and Joan
- 41:39
kind of go out on a night on the town.
- 41:42
>> It's incredible. I mean, Don and Joan
- 41:43
never had enough scenes together as far
- 41:44
as I was concerned.
- 41:45
>> That's what kind of made it great was
- 41:47
that there were like two or three.
- 41:48
Everyone in that show is just pitch
- 41:50
perfect. And and you brought up the
- 41:53
smoking. What did you have to smoke?
- 41:55
>> They were like those fake herbal
- 41:56
cigarettes,
- 41:57
>> but I think somebody did somebody
- 41:59
watched the pilot just to watch how many
- 42:02
cigarettes I smoke. And I think it was
- 42:03
something like 80
- 42:08
in a one-hour pilot.
- 42:17
So, uh, Parks and Recreation and Mad Men
- 42:19
were on at the same time.
- 42:20
>> We were in We were We were fellow
- 42:21
travelers.
- 42:22
>> We were fellow travelers. And we shared,
- 42:24
um, uh, you and I shared two things. We
- 42:26
shared a production designer and Dan
- 42:28
Bishop who did your show and did we used
- 42:31
to brag like, "Oh, the bullpen of um,
- 42:34
you know, the offices of Parks and Wreck
- 42:36
were designed by the same guy that did
- 42:38
Madmen." And people were like, "Cool."
- 42:40
Um,
- 42:40
>> I can tell
- 42:42
>> that was a big brag. We were like, um,
- 42:44
and he's a love. Yeah, he's a great guy.
- 42:46
And, um, the other thing is that you and
- 42:50
I were at award shows many, many times
- 42:53
>> on the losing end.
- 42:54
>> On the losing end. And so, uh, I got to
- 42:57
get to Slatterie's question. Sorry, I'm
- 42:58
all over the place, but I got to get to
- 42:59
Slatter's question. But before that,
- 43:00
let's talk about Losers Lounge, which
- 43:02
you mentioned in the very beginning.
- 43:03
What was it?
- 43:04
>> The Losers Lounge was a thing that we
- 43:06
decided to do after being fed up with
- 43:08
losing. Yeah.
- 43:10
>> Like, let's take let's turn this frown
- 43:12
upside down.
- 43:13
>> Yeah.
- 43:14
>> Let's not live in the
- 43:16
>> we're not losers, we're winners.
- 43:17
>> We're winners.
- 43:19
>> Only losers lose.
- 43:20
>> Only losers lose. And we are not losers.
- 43:22
>> No way.
- 43:23
>> So, we decided that and I I still think
- 43:26
this is a great idea. I think we should
- 43:27
have patented it and I think it should
- 43:29
have been permanent.
- 43:30
>> Yeah.
- 43:31
>> That because also any awards night
- 43:34
there's way more people that lost than
- 43:36
one.
- 43:36
>> Oh, yeah. So, we decided that there
- 43:39
should be a celebratory place for the
- 43:41
losers to hang out, the losers lounge.
- 43:43
And if you wanted to come and you were a
- 43:45
winner and you had a statue in your
- 43:47
hand, you had to pay.
- 43:49
>> Yeah. You had to pay up.
- 43:50
>> You had to pay up
- 43:51
>> to charity.
- 43:51
>> To charity. It was all a charity thing.
- 43:53
It was a lovely char. Worldwide Orphans,
- 43:54
I believe it was.
- 43:55
>> That's right.
- 43:56
>> Um, and the rest of us could get in and
- 43:58
have a good time for free. And it was a
- 44:00
fun party.
- 44:01
>> We So, we threw a party a couple years
- 44:03
in a row.
- 44:03
>> Soho House, I think it was a couple
- 44:05
different places.
- 44:06
>> We had a dance off. We had a pants off,
- 44:07
dance off
- 44:08
>> and everybody wanted to get in. And the
- 44:10
highlight for me was I think I told you
- 44:12
the story. The highlight for me at the
- 44:14
Emmys was the great my hero idol Francis
- 44:18
McDorman won for I believe it was maybe
- 44:21
Olive Kiddage or one one of the many
- 44:24
incredible things she done. She won and
- 44:26
as she was walking up the aisle with her
- 44:29
Emmy, she turned me and she goes, "Does
- 44:30
this mean I can't go to the losers
- 44:32
lounge?"
- 44:33
>> And you said, "Yeah." And I was like,
- 44:35
"Yeah, you're gonna have to pay."
- 44:38
>> And I was like,
- 44:39
>> she did.
- 44:39
>> She did. She came and paid.
- 44:40
>> She came and paid.
- 44:41
>> Um that time of like being at those
- 44:44
places together and losing was so fun
- 44:48
because of course who cares. And also
- 44:52
the everyone's work was so great.
- 44:54
Everyone was such a fan of everybody.
- 44:56
>> We were all doing great stuff cuz Tina
- 44:57
was on 30 Rock at the time. You were
- 44:59
doing Parks.
- 45:00
>> I was doing Mad Man. We had that one
- 45:02
crazy fun night. I broke my toe.
- 45:04
>> Well, you broke your toe.
- 45:07
>> Uhoh.
- 45:08
>> And we were like you and me and Tina and
- 45:11
Claire Danes and we were all like
- 45:13
>> dancing dancing like insane people like
- 45:17
it was the last night on earth.
- 45:18
>> Yeah. And I was Tina had to get on a
- 45:21
plane the next day and like describes
- 45:23
like getting on a plane and like looking
- 45:25
at the floor and there's like a pile of
- 45:26
hair.
- 45:28
>> She was like, "What happened?"
- 45:30
>> I'm going to beat that. I had just had
- 45:32
my second child.
- 45:33
>> Oh my god. I know.
- 45:34
>> And I flew in for the weekend cuz I was
- 45:38
Well, yeah. I must I forget. I was in
- 45:39
New York and I flew I flew to California
- 45:41
for the thing.
- 45:42
>> I broke my toe on the banquet dancing.
- 45:45
I'm a mother of two.
- 45:47
>> I can't very young children.
- 45:50
>> I can't walk in the airport. I'm like I
- 45:52
wake up the next morning. I'm like I
- 45:53
can't walk.
- 45:54
>> Oh boy.
- 45:54
>> I have to get on a plane. I mean, I I
- 45:58
put like a hat on and sunglasses and
- 46:01
like tape my toe and like try to walk to
- 46:04
the And I'm like, I can't get a
- 46:06
wheelchair. This is like too much. So,
- 46:08
I'm like walking and I hear Amy. And I
- 46:11
look and it's Bradley Cooper.
- 46:14
The lovely Brad goes, Amy. And I'm like,
- 46:16
hey. And I look at my husband AND HE'S
- 46:18
LIKE,
- 46:18
>> "NO, it's not Amy.
- 46:20
>> So hung over." And I'm like, "Hey,
- 46:21
Bradley." He's like, "Are you okay?" And
- 46:23
I'm like, "Nope, no. very very bad. I'm
- 46:26
very very bad. And so he has to hold me
- 46:29
like an old like talk about old lady
- 46:30
like hold my elbow while like we shuffle
- 46:33
in. I got a little escort.
- 46:35
>> I got a I got an A-listister escort.
- 46:37
>> Wow.
- 46:37
>> That was a fun night.
- 46:38
>> Amy,
- 46:42
>> the last thing you want the last word
- 46:44
you wanted to hear.
- 46:45
>> Oh, but but worth it. Worth it.
- 46:49
>> I will never forget that night. Lauren
- 46:51
was Lauren was uh there and and moving
- 46:54
and grooving. We had a time.
- 46:55
>> Loves to dance.
- 46:56
>> We had a time.
- 46:57
>> Okay, let's talk about you hosting SNL,
- 46:59
though. And I mean, you're Are you a
- 47:00
fivetime?
- 47:01
>> Four. I just had my fourth. I I took I
- 47:04
did three in two years.
- 47:05
>> Mhm.
- 47:06
>> Took a 15-year hiatus.
- 47:08
>> Yeah.
- 47:09
>> And and came back this last uh this last
- 47:12
year. It's been said and I think I've
- 47:14
been listening to Seth's thing with Andy
- 47:16
and the boys, the Lonely Eye thing.
- 47:19
>> Oh, you were on it too, I think. Right.
- 47:20
Yeah,
- 47:21
>> that was an amazing your time there was
- 47:24
an amazing time. Every They're all
- 47:26
great.
- 47:28
You you you can't you literally can't
- 47:29
stack them up against another cuz
- 47:31
they're all different and they're all
- 47:31
great. But it was so fun to be there
- 47:33
with you,
- 47:35
>> with Maya.
- 47:36
>> Mhm.
- 47:38
>> Bill, Fred, Will, Kristen.
- 47:41
>> Yeah. I mean, Seth, those guys, you guys
- 47:46
were
- 47:48
I felt like we were just talk about
- 47:50
speaking the same language. It was like
- 47:52
I felt so comfortable
- 47:54
>> there.
- 47:55
>> Mhm.
- 47:55
>> Which was,
- 47:57
>> you know, part of part of it was you're
- 47:59
a guest in somebody's home,
- 48:01
>> so you don't want to be too comfortable
- 48:04
>> where you're kind of being shitty.
- 48:06
>> Um,
- 48:06
>> but I really did feel welcomed there. I
- 48:09
mean, cuz first of all, I'm sure you've
- 48:12
told this story, but pitch on Monday, my
- 48:15
first time hosting, you guys all roll in
- 48:18
in costume.
- 48:20
>> Oh, that's right. Let's tell that story.
- 48:21
So,
- 48:21
>> madman costume.
- 48:22
>> We all decide to dress up as the people
- 48:24
from for
- 48:26
>> 60s gear for pitch Monday night, which
- 48:29
is
- 48:30
35 people in a room, maybe a little bit
- 48:33
bigger than this.
- 48:34
>> Yeah. So sitting on the floor, on the
- 48:36
sofa, everything, everyone is in 1960s
- 48:40
period gear.
- 48:40
>> Yeah.
- 48:41
>> Hater was in drag.
- 48:43
>> Oh yeah.
- 48:43
>> Lutz was in drag as Joan.
- 48:45
>> Lutz was Joan. John Lutz, writer.
- 48:48
>> Paul, yes.
- 48:49
>> Had a cigarette taped to her finger
- 48:52
because she didn't know how to smoke. So
- 48:53
she's like, I just tape it. And then she
- 48:55
and she would pitch like this.
- 48:59
>> I And I was I didn't know this wasn't
- 49:01
normal,
- 49:02
>> right? I was like, "This is okay." Wow.
- 49:05
I really really do it on Mondays. I
- 49:07
thought it was a whole thing. Okay.
- 49:09
Well, nice. This is so fun.
- 49:11
>> And that was the beginning of a
- 49:13
wonderful relationship, not only with
- 49:15
that show, but with so many of you guys.
- 49:17
Um,
- 49:18
>> sitting around that whole week shooting
- 49:20
with Jim Signarelli.
- 49:22
>> You're 95 months pregnant.
- 49:24
>> Yeah. And we've told the story a million
- 49:25
million times, but the fast version is
- 49:29
Friday. I was supposed to do the show on
- 49:32
Saturday and then give birth.
- 49:33
>> And there was no doubt in your mind that
- 49:34
you were not having this baby before.
- 49:36
You were like, I'm it'll be fine.
- 49:38
>> Women listening, it's, you know, your
- 49:40
first kid. You assume you're going to be
- 49:42
a at least a few days late. I was
- 49:44
weirdly feeling good.
- 49:45
>> I was told you're not going to be giving
- 49:48
birth on before your due date. No way.
- 49:50
Go finish your last show. kill it on
- 49:52
Saturday, put your feet up.
- 49:55
>> Yeah. My first lesson in mothering,
- 49:57
which was like,
- 49:58
>> nope, nothing goes the way you think
- 50:00
it's going to go.
- 50:01
>> And I really did think I would do the
- 50:03
show on Saturday and then give birth on
- 50:06
Sunday.
- 50:07
>> And Friday night, we were shooting
- 50:10
Friday night. And um we were doing like
- 50:12
a pre-tape and I got a call from my
- 50:14
OBGYn
- 50:16
>> office of your OBGYn's office. my
- 50:18
beloved OBGYn passed away that night.
- 50:22
And so,
- 50:23
you know, for people who don't know,
- 50:24
when you get really connected to your
- 50:26
doctor and you kind of think about your
- 50:27
birth plan and you think about how it's
- 50:29
going to go and all of a sudden, you
- 50:31
know, you realize, well, you realize two
- 50:32
things. One is that a lot of people can
- 50:35
deliver a baby.
- 50:35
>> Yeah.
- 50:36
>> And two, um,
- 50:38
>> Seth had one in a lobby.
- 50:39
>> That's right. Seth Seth had his in the
- 50:41
lobby. That's right. But he didn't have
- 50:43
it.
- 50:44
>> No, he didn't have it.
- 50:46
>> Very true. He didn't have it. He wore
- 50:49
the same jeans that day that he wore the
- 50:51
next day.
- 50:52
>> Um, no. But, um,
- 50:54
>> yeah, a lot of people can do this.
- 50:55
>> And the end of the world got the news
- 50:57
that my OBGYN died. I started to cry.
- 51:00
>> I mean, heavy sobbing,
- 51:02
>> right? Which is horrifying. A giant
- 51:03
pregnant woman crying. It's not It's
- 51:05
really scary.
- 51:06
>> And Ham leaned in and said,
- 51:09
>> "I know this is hard for you. I'm
- 51:12
really, really sad. But this is a big
- 51:14
deal for me. So you better you
- 51:17
better pull your together.
- 51:19
And that's the face she made immediately
- 51:22
which I was like talk about in the world
- 51:24
of big swings. That's a big one.
- 51:27
>> That to me is and I've written about it.
- 51:29
>> That's why you had the baby. That's
- 51:31
something happened because you laughed
- 51:33
that hard.
- 51:34
>> I think so. I think a big hard laugh.
- 51:36
>> I was I was like please let this go.
- 51:38
Please let this go. Well,
- 51:40
>> and to me, the crying to laughing
- 51:42
switcheroo, that's like we get about we
- 51:46
get a few in our life where we're really
- 51:48
really deeply sad and then someone says
- 51:50
something to make us laugh and that
- 51:53
those two against each other feels like
- 51:55
I I think it extends your life.
- 51:56
>> Friday night was like cuz everybody's so
- 51:58
punchy by then.
- 52:00
>> It was and I was I wouldn't you couldn't
- 52:02
drag me out of that studio. I was having
- 52:04
the greatest time.
- 52:05
>> Yeah. I mean it it now it brings me to
- 52:07
Slatterie's question which is which I
- 52:11
thought was just such a sweet question
- 52:12
which is and kind of back to what we
- 52:14
were talking about about this idea of
- 52:16
like finding community and family in
- 52:18
places all different kinds of places but
- 52:21
he was his question to you his question
- 52:23
was like who do you look for for answers
- 52:26
when you're feeling
- 52:28
frazzled or lost because I was saying
- 52:31
you have a big brother you have a big
- 52:33
brother vibe with a lot of
- 52:35
He feels like a big brother to you, but
- 52:37
he was saying I feel like I I I think a
- 52:40
lot about like what would John do here?
- 52:42
Like he takes a lot of counsel from you.
- 52:44
Who do you look where do you go? Where
- 52:45
do you look?
- 52:46
>> That's a really good question. Um I I I
- 52:48
don't have a I I don't think I have a
- 52:50
have a go-to honestly. Um I've been
- 52:55
on my own
- 52:57
>> in one way or another for a very long
- 52:59
time.
- 53:00
>> So I I'm I'm very selfdependent. Mhm.
- 53:04
>> I think part of my therapeutic journey
- 53:07
has been sometimes to a fault where I
- 53:09
won't
- 53:10
>> reach out.
- 53:11
>> I'll just I I got it.
- 53:13
>> Yeah.
- 53:15
>> I'm learning to get better at that for
- 53:17
sure.
- 53:18
>> But people uh like Lauren for sure.
- 53:22
>> Lauren I've definitely reached out to
- 53:24
when I've had
- 53:25
>> instability in my life.
- 53:27
And you know, part of the magic of that
- 53:31
man is that it he's so inscrutable
- 53:34
and so Canadian
- 53:36
>> uh that it's a Coen in some way. You
- 53:38
know, you get some kind of weird thing
- 53:40
where you're like,
- 53:40
>> did you say Coan?
- 53:41
>> Yeah, like a Zen Coen. You know what
- 53:43
that is?
- 53:44
>> It's like a saying that you know.
- 53:46
>> How do you spell that?
- 53:47
>> K O N.
- 53:49
>> I don't know that word. Sorry. Coan.
- 53:54
I'll be interested because I I don't
- 53:55
have a great definition of
- 53:56
>> a paradoxical anecdote question or
- 53:58
dialogue.
- 53:59
>> Yeah.
- 54:00
>> Well done. Okay. Continue.
- 54:01
>> So, so he'll say, "Well, you know,
- 54:03
eventually you'll just be on the t-shirt
- 54:05
and you're like, what?"
- 54:08
>> You know, it's that thing where you let
- 54:11
go and suddenly you're finding yourself
- 54:13
on Mull Holland
- 54:15
>> and then maybe Mick will come by and
- 54:17
you'll say, "Oh, great."
- 54:20
>> Um, everybody does that. That's so
- 54:22
great. But but I people like that I I
- 54:25
find that I
- 54:28
>> very much enjoy
- 54:30
>> talking to my elders.
- 54:32
>> Yeah.
- 54:33
>> Uh I was not to be super named droppy
- 54:35
but last night had an amazing dinner at
- 54:37
the Brookheimimer's house. Jerry
- 54:38
Brookheimrimer who produced Top Gun. I
- 54:39
think you worked for Jerry. Uh I have
- 54:41
you.
- 54:42
>> Not that to my knowledge.
- 54:44
>> What's the squeaks? No, they weren't.
- 54:46
>> Oh, he was um Yeah, Jerry. I never met
- 54:48
Jerry in the booth when I was Elanor in
- 54:51
the squeak. Um, fair enough.
- 54:54
>> But Jerry, thanks for the job.
- 54:56
>> Hey,
- 54:56
>> didn't know didn't didn't know that you
- 54:58
were the person that hired me.
- 55:00
>> Thank you for the job.
- 55:01
>> Thank you for the job.
- 55:02
>> Sorry that I dressed up as Elanor when I
- 55:04
came in for the audition.
- 55:06
>> You've been in some monster hits.
- 55:08
Bridesmaids.
- 55:10
>> The town. Bridesmaids. You're so funny
- 55:11
in it. What a funny What a incredible
- 55:14
movie.
- 55:15
>> Yeah. I mean, some fun movies for sure.
- 55:17
>> Some big fun movies. I I
- 55:19
>> How did you How did you learn how to do
- 55:20
a bo accent? How did you
- 55:23
>> I don't know. Like anybody just
- 55:25
>> Not like anybody. People can't do it
- 55:26
really well.
- 55:27
>> Well, I mean I I famously did it in the
- 55:29
town, but I was making fun of Ben. That
- 55:31
was the That was part of why it was easy
- 55:33
for me. My guy wasn't supposed to be
- 55:34
from Boston, right?
- 55:35
>> When I met all those FBI guys.
- 55:37
>> Yeah.
- 55:39
>> None of them. The the Boston PD guys are
- 55:41
from Boston. The BPD, the local
- 55:42
>> Well, even the way you're saying Boston
- 55:44
is the correct way to say it. Well, I tr
- 55:47
you, Trust me, we were immersed in
- 55:50
Boston.
- 55:50
>> Oh, yeah. You do a movie in Boston.
- 55:52
Everybody's in the movie.
- 55:53
>> Yes, indeed.
- 55:54
>> Your cousin, your uncle, everybody, your
- 55:57
friend. And talk about making a movie
- 55:59
about Charles Town.
- 56:00
>> Mhm.
- 56:01
>> Holy moly.
- 56:02
>> Yeah.
- 56:02
>> Talk about the guys coming out of the I
- 56:04
You Ben told me we were going to uh you
- 56:07
were going to cast uh
- 56:08
>> Yeah.
- 56:08
>> Tommy and uh and the other guy
- 56:12
here.
- 56:12
>> We're here. Where's the paycheck?
- 56:14
>> Yeah. And where's craft service?
- 56:16
>> Yeah.
- 56:17
>> And you're like, "Nobody said you can be
- 56:20
Yeah. They said we're in the job. Don't
- 56:21
worry." Yeah. Yeah.
- 56:23
>> You're like, "Okay." We had guys that
- 56:25
would show up and then were like, "Oh,
- 56:27
but I can't shoot here. I'm on parole."
- 56:29
Like, "It's too close to a bank."
- 56:33
>> You're like, "I can't be near your
- 56:34
bank."
- 56:35
>> Okay.
- 56:36
Sorry. Oh, man. There were some
- 56:39
characters and it was a blast. It was a
- 56:41
blast. And what about um 30 Rock working
- 56:44
there? Let's uh Tina
- 56:46
>> F the show or the
- 56:47
>> Tina F discuss
- 56:48
>> Tina. I credit Tina along with Lauren
- 56:52
for allowing me to be in comedies.
- 56:55
>> Nobody thought it's not like when you do
- 56:58
Madmen they're like I bet that guy's
- 57:00
real funny.
- 57:03
>> He's probably got a bunch of impressions
- 57:05
and bits and jokes.
- 57:08
>> True. You're very serious in Mad Men. I
- 57:10
mean to Yes. So
- 57:14
>> when Lauren asked me to host the show,
- 57:17
>> I was like, "Oh my god, that's the only
- 57:19
thing I've ever wanted to do since I was
- 57:22
>> since ever was Beyond Saturday Night
- 57:25
Live." So I I was very excited. And then
- 57:28
as we discussed, you guys very
- 57:31
welcoming. Here we are. Everyone's in
- 57:33
costume. It's very funny.
- 57:35
>> The you know, read through that week,
- 57:37
the packet of 50. I think you were right
- 57:40
next to me. I can't remember where you
- 57:41
sat.
- 57:43
So, so fun.
- 57:44
>> Mhm.
- 57:45
>> And
- 57:46
then uh I I remember I think it was
- 57:49
after read or maybe it was on Thursday,
- 57:51
but I was going down to the to to 8 to
- 57:54
do blocking something and the phone in
- 57:57
my in the dressing room rings. Like
- 58:00
Jesus, that's weird. It's like when a
- 58:01
hotel phone rings. You're like, who's
- 58:02
calling me? Who's calling in the room?
- 58:04
This is very weird.
- 58:06
And I picked it up. I was like, "Hello.
- 58:08
Hello. Uh, is this John?" Yeah. Well,
- 58:11
yeah. Hi. It's Robert Carlock. We just
- 58:13
want to know if you wanted to come do
- 58:14
his thing on 30 Rock. Uh, we're It's
- 58:17
kind of a love interest for for Liz and
- 58:19
we're I was like, "Huh?" Like the other
- 58:23
thing that I wanted to be on is that.
- 58:27
And Tina, unbeknownst to me, had called
- 58:29
Lauren after readthrough and said, "Is
- 58:30
this guy funny? How is this guy as Tina
- 58:34
is want to do? Like give me the the
- 58:37
straight dope and Lauren. Yeah.
- 58:40
>> I mean, it's like when you're in that
- 58:42
space,
- 58:42
>> you'll like them. We were on parallel
- 58:44
tracks. Like we shot our pilots in the
- 58:47
same studio.
- 58:48
>> Mhm.
- 58:49
>> At at Silver Cup,
- 58:50
>> right?
- 58:50
>> Um so we kind of we were and and they
- 58:53
were they were winning for comedy and we
- 58:55
were winning for drama and it was like
- 58:56
Mad Man, Dirty Rock. Mad Man, 30 Rock
- 58:57
was great.
- 58:58
>> Well, you weren't winning, but they were
- 58:59
winning.
- 59:00
>> The show.
- 59:00
>> You were in the losers. Loser signs.
- 59:02
Thank you.
- 59:03
>> Tina's love language is writing
- 59:06
incredible material that you get to do.
- 59:08
Like that's like how she like it's like
- 59:10
it's the nicest gift is that she
- 59:13
>> I recently got a text from Tina
- 59:16
that was the beginning of my character
- 59:19
arc on the show
- 59:20
>> where I played a perfectly normal human
- 59:23
being. Now, cut to season whatever where
- 59:26
I have two hooks for hands and am fall.
- 59:31
And the reason I have hooks for hands is
- 59:32
because I thought I recognized my old
- 59:35
football coach when I was getting out of
- 59:36
a helicopter and I waved.
- 59:42
>> Yeah.
- 59:42
>> TWICE.
- 59:48
>> SO, she was like, "Remember when this
- 59:50
guy was a normal personal?" Well, we it
- 59:53
didn't last long.
- 59:54
>> Um, okay. And then the last thing, ham,
- 59:56
I want to ask you about cuz I love it is
- 59:59
I loved you at the Super Bowl enjoying
- 1:00:01
Bad Bunny and I
- 1:00:04
>> people Bad Bunny came at a time where
- 1:00:07
for a lot of people it was like we were
- 1:00:09
we're you know we're looking for
- 1:00:11
something
- 1:00:12
>> any any expression of joy would be
- 1:00:14
helpful
- 1:00:14
>> out there. Any Exactly. Any artistic
- 1:00:18
expression of joy.
- 1:00:20
I know you were a huge fan of his. You
- 1:00:22
went to like what was it like watching
- 1:00:24
that? And tell me why it was important
- 1:00:25
to you.
- 1:00:26
>> Here's why.
- 1:00:27
>> My wife Anna, who I met on the last
- 1:00:30
episode of of Madmen.
- 1:00:32
>> Okay. Can you tell everybody who she
- 1:00:34
played in the last episode,
- 1:00:34
>> she plays the receptionist of the
- 1:00:36
Eselinike place, the girl with the
- 1:00:38
pigtails.
- 1:00:39
>> Who then gets put in the Coca-Cola
- 1:00:41
commercial.
- 1:00:42
>> Yes.
- 1:00:42
>> So, this woman clearly has an effect on
- 1:00:44
Don and clearly had an effect on John.
- 1:00:47
Um, we ended up getting married at the
- 1:00:49
same place, same location.
- 1:00:52
>> No.
- 1:00:52
>> Yes, ma'am.
- 1:00:53
>> They better given you that for free.
- 1:00:55
>> We worked out a nice day.
- 1:00:58
>> Incredible.
- 1:00:59
>> It was a beautiful, magical experience
- 1:01:01
and lovely. Um, so Anna had gone
- 1:01:07
to Colombia with her sister and her best
- 1:01:09
friend on a girls trip
- 1:01:10
>> and they would go to the dance clubs at
- 1:01:13
night after dinner, whatever, and shake
- 1:01:15
their butts and have a good time. And
- 1:01:16
they were like, "This there's this this
- 1:01:18
guy that keep playing Bad Bunny."
- 1:01:20
>> No one had heard him. This is like 2018.
- 1:01:22
He wasn't even played on the regaton
- 1:01:24
stations in in in LA or New York. No one
- 1:01:27
had heard of him.
- 1:01:29
>> And we had started to kind of see each
- 1:01:31
other a little bit here and there. And
- 1:01:32
we go out in New York City and they play
- 1:01:34
me this bad. Who is this?
- 1:01:36
Our text thread is called Bad Bunnies.
- 1:01:41
That was just our first and I I was like
- 1:01:42
I dig this guy's
- 1:01:44
>> energy sound whatever.
- 1:01:46
>> So over the course of our relationship
- 1:01:49
this is the soundtrack to our
- 1:01:50
relationship really.
- 1:01:51
>> A that's so nice.
- 1:01:53
>> So it's and it's and it's just organic.
- 1:01:55
It wasn't you know so we had heard about
- 1:01:59
he had hosted the show or he was a guest
- 1:02:01
on the show on SNL.
- 1:02:03
>> Got it got to go to that.
- 1:02:05
>> We found out he was doing this residency
- 1:02:06
in Puerto Rico. Anna was like, and to
- 1:02:09
Anna's great credit, she's always like,
- 1:02:10
"What if we did that?" And it was a
- 1:02:13
blast.
- 1:02:14
>> Yeah,
- 1:02:14
>> that was the first time I went viral uh
- 1:02:16
was was in the cassita. Uh
- 1:02:19
>> dancing.
- 1:02:19
>> Dancing. Just dancing. It was fun, man.
- 1:02:22
>> He's fun.
- 1:02:23
>> He's fun. We had a dance party at at uh
- 1:02:26
>> I love girls.
- 1:02:27
>> I love dancing.
- 1:02:28
>> Me, too. And so there's, as you said,
- 1:02:32
the world was was a little
- 1:02:34
>> is
- 1:02:35
>> is a little of of a bummer.
- 1:02:38
>> A lot of a bummer.
- 1:02:39
>> A lot of a bummer.
- 1:02:40
>> Yeah.
- 1:02:40
>> But boy, man, for 15 minutes of that
- 1:02:43
halftime show.
- 1:02:44
>> Yeah.
- 1:02:44
>> No kidding.
- 1:02:45
>> And what a message. And what a And not
- 1:02:48
for nothing,
- 1:02:50
you forget that he had to perform that.
- 1:02:53
>> No kidding. I I mean,
- 1:02:54
>> you think like, oh, he's singing along
- 1:02:55
to a track or whatever. Like, no, no,
- 1:02:57
no. He was jumping off a roof, climbing
- 1:03:00
on a pole, spiking a football. You're
- 1:03:02
like
- 1:03:03
>> doing a trust fall.
- 1:03:04
>> Doing a trust fall.
- 1:03:05
>> Like a real one, not a fake one
- 1:03:09
up in the air. So much
- 1:03:11
>> 10 out of 10. No notes, perfectly
- 1:03:13
executed.
- 1:03:15
>> Then you go and you listen to the words
- 1:03:17
>> and you're like, "Oh man, that's a nice
- 1:03:20
sentiment as well."
- 1:03:21
>> Yeah. Maybe if we look back in five
- 1:03:24
years, this is the tipping point.
- 1:03:28
>> And if it is, what a kick-ass
- 1:03:31
thing to do.
- 1:03:32
>> Yeah.
- 1:03:33
>> Remind everybody that maybe together is
- 1:03:36
a little better than siloed and apart
- 1:03:38
and
- 1:03:39
>> Yeah.
- 1:03:40
>> Uh and that joy is kind of great
- 1:03:43
>> and that there's a million ways to be an
- 1:03:47
American and that music is like like
- 1:03:49
that when music does that.
- 1:03:51
>> Yeah. I feel like and I mean I I know
- 1:03:54
you feel this way about music too. Like
- 1:03:55
there's something about music that can
- 1:03:57
shortcut.
- 1:03:59
>> Yeah.
- 1:03:59
>> In a way it's a universal language. I
- 1:04:01
say it always because you it doesn't
- 1:04:03
matter what kind. It doesn't matter what
- 1:04:04
it is.
- 1:04:05
>> It can be aggressive. It can be
- 1:04:06
soothing. It can be all of the things.
- 1:04:08
But man, when it hits the right buttons
- 1:04:10
Yeah.
- 1:04:11
>> feels good.
- 1:04:11
>> Juan Hammonito
- 1:04:13
Hamito.
- 1:04:15
>> Honito
- 1:04:17
little Johnny.
- 1:04:19
>> Do you speak Spanish? I do speak Spanish
- 1:04:21
pretty well.
- 1:04:22
>> You do?
- 1:04:22
>> I do pretty well. I I've learn I learned
- 1:04:25
it in high school and then I worked in a
- 1:04:26
million restaurants in Los Angeles.
- 1:04:28
>> Yeah. And then you get really good at
- 1:04:30
>> Do you have a an accent like a Is it Do
- 1:04:33
you have
- 1:04:46
See,
- 1:04:49
and the last question I have for you is
- 1:04:51
um what are you laughing at these days?
- 1:04:54
>> What are you watching that's making you
- 1:04:55
laugh? And it can be, it doesn't have to
- 1:04:57
be recently that really made me laugh
- 1:05:00
that I think you would really like.
- 1:05:01
>> Yeah.
- 1:05:02
>> It's a show out of Canada called Heated
- 1:05:04
Revol.
- 1:05:08
>> No, it's not that. That's a bit
- 1:05:12
>> That's called a bit.
- 1:05:14
>> Um,
- 1:05:16
it's but it does have to do it is
- 1:05:17
Canadian. It does have to do with
- 1:05:18
hockey. It's a show called Shoresy.
- 1:05:20
>> Oh, I love Shoresy.
- 1:05:22
>> That is making me laugh. And you know
- 1:05:23
what? It's also making me do cry. It's
- 1:05:26
making a really It's a great show.
- 1:05:29
>> Okay. I've only watched clips of Shy
- 1:05:32
because you know I I I I've seen him on
- 1:05:35
>> six episodes a season.
- 1:05:36
>> Oh, really? Oh, I love that.
- 1:05:38
>> You can watch all of them in a half a
- 1:05:39
day.
- 1:05:40
>> And uh him. Okay, let's watch it.
- 1:05:41
>> So Jared Kiso.
- 1:05:42
>> Okay, tell me more.
- 1:05:43
>> Uh uh was on a show, created a show
- 1:05:45
called Letter Kenny.
- 1:05:46
>> Yes.
- 1:05:47
>> Which is a very very Canadian show.
- 1:05:49
>> Yes.
- 1:05:50
>> Uh but very specifically funny. Maybe
- 1:05:54
not to everyone's taste as as as as
- 1:05:56
things should be.
- 1:05:56
>> Yeah. Comedy is very subjective.
- 1:05:58
>> Subjective. And the reason he did this
- 1:06:00
was because he came to LA and they were
- 1:06:04
like, "You're too Canadian. You're too
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this. You're too that." And he was like,
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"Fuck it. I'm going to go back home and
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I'm going to make a I'm going to make my
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own show."
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>> Mhm.
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>> Um and he did. And then he spun it off
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into this thing, Shy. And it's Shy's
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about this um kind of local hero legend.
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He plays on the local men's hockey team.
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Mhm.
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>> And it's kind of the point of pride for
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the small town in northern Ontario that
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they live called Sudbury. And the over
- 1:06:30
the course of the of the series, they
- 1:06:32
they win the championship. Then he
- 1:06:34
becomes a coach and he tries to teach
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the kids. And it's it's a tremendous
- 1:06:39
show because it it highlights most of
- 1:06:42
the uh people in in power that are
- 1:06:44
running things are women.
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>> Mhm.
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>> Many of them are First Nations uh
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indigenous Canadians.
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And it's not made a big deal of it. Just
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is.
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>> Yeah.
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>> And his
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relationship to all of that while being
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this
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>> Yeah.
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>> bruiser is very soft.
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>> Yes. Yes. I mean, I've seen
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>> he's got this real high pitched voice
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and it's really kind of funny. And he
- 1:07:07
always interrupts people.
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>> They're always interrupting. They're
- 1:07:10
always And they're overlapping dialogue
- 1:07:12
is really funny.
- 1:07:13
>> It's tremendous. It's a tremendously
- 1:07:15
ambitious show that delivers. So I I'm
- 1:07:17
trying to
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>> pump their tires a little bit. I want to
- 1:07:20
find the scenes where he's um hitting on
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uh
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>> oh when he hits on on the girl who who
- 1:07:27
he really loves. It's so I'll make you
- 1:07:28
feel and Laura
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>> I'll make you so happy.
- 1:07:30
>> Okay, that's the stuff that I see and
- 1:07:32
it's so funny. It's such a funny move.
- 1:07:34
>> But it's also like it's also deeply
- 1:07:37
sentimental and heartfelt.
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>> Agree. That was I was like, "Oh, I want
- 1:07:40
to watch the show." Cuz his move, his
- 1:07:42
comedy move is like, "I'm going to love
- 1:07:44
you so hard." And she's just like, "I'm
- 1:07:46
not interested." And it's so good.
- 1:07:48
>> Sure. You're going to want to enjoy the
- 1:07:49
perks that come along with that. It's
- 1:07:51
summer and Sunday.
- 1:07:52
>> It's not playel car.
- 1:07:54
>> We know what goes on. It's
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>> not bellow horizont.
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But I need to be sure that you're sure.
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>> Oh, so good.
- 1:08:06
>> So good. Such a good show. Okay, we got
- 1:08:08
to check that out. Um, well, John Ham,
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>> Amy Polar Bear.
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>> Buddy, I don't have a lot of straight
- 1:08:17
men on the show.
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So,
- 1:08:22
>> I break down a lot I break down a lot of
- 1:08:23
doors, a lot of walls, you know. It's
- 1:08:25
nice,
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>> you know. Um, and uh I should probably
- 1:08:28
>> But the guys you do are great. Our
- 1:08:29
buddies, too. Um,
- 1:08:30
>> great. All of our buddies.
- 1:08:32
>> Yeah, I know.
- 1:08:33
>> All of our buddies. And
- 1:08:34
>> it's it's nice to be uh first of all,
- 1:08:36
it's so great to see you. I I really do
- 1:08:39
miss you.
- 1:08:40
>> Um, we don't hang out enough, but I'm
- 1:08:42
glad we got this one in. Um, same. You
- 1:08:44
are the best in the biz
- 1:08:46
>> and um, you consistently make me smile
- 1:08:49
and happy and I look forward to your new
- 1:08:51
show which I know is coming out. I was
- 1:08:52
talking to Sh.
- 1:08:53
>> We didn't even talk about your friends
- 1:08:54
and neighbors. Season 3 coming out. It's
- 1:08:56
so great. It's so funny. Congratulations
- 1:08:59
on another big hit show for Apple.
- 1:09:01
>> Yeah, season 3 starting. We'll start
- 1:09:02
shooting that in uh in uh late April.
- 1:09:04
Season 2 will come out in early April.
- 1:09:06
And it's very fun. Fun stuff shooting in
- 1:09:09
New York City.
- 1:09:10
>> I know. But lots of nights.
- 1:09:12
>> Yeah, lots of nights. But Oh, I saw in
- 1:09:14
that first season, I was like, "Oh, you
- 1:09:15
have to break in at night time."
- 1:09:16
>> They they uh they they they they almost
- 1:09:19
broke me on that. I was like, "We got to
- 1:09:21
find a way to break into these houses
- 1:09:22
during the day.
- 1:09:25
>> Well, I'm very happy to call myself one
- 1:09:27
of your chosen sisters, Ham. I'm happy.
- 1:09:29
I'm happy to be one of them." So, thanks
- 1:09:31
for doing this.
- 1:09:32
>> Thank you, Amy. Love you.
- 1:09:33
>> Love you, too.
- 1:09:36
>> Thank you so much, John Ham. It was so
- 1:09:38
good to have you and see you and um I
- 1:09:40
love talking to you and you know um John
- 1:09:44
and I talked about a lot of things and I
- 1:09:45
mentioned a very brief anecdote about
- 1:09:48
probably my favorite actress Francis
- 1:09:50
McDormund and so for this Polar Plunge I
- 1:09:53
just wanted to remind you all how great
- 1:09:57
she is.
- 1:09:59
I just rewatched Nomad Land the other
- 1:10:01
night and oh god that is a good
- 1:10:04
performance. She's just good in
- 1:10:05
everything. She's so interesting and
- 1:10:08
smart and just so cool and uh Francis,
- 1:10:15
if you're listening,
- 1:10:17
I love you. Um, never change, please.
- 1:10:20
Uh, I'm just a big fan of your work. And
- 1:10:23
um, and check out Francis's work.
- 1:10:29
You know, it's these kind of polar
- 1:10:30
punges. Thank you, Francis, for your
- 1:10:32
work. And thank you, John Ham, for
- 1:10:34
coming today and for your work. And
- 1:10:36
thank you just for Oh my god, I don't
- 1:10:39
know how to end this. Okay, bye
- 1:10:40
everybody.
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You've been listening to Good Hang. The
- 1:10:45
executive producers for this show are
- 1:10:46
Bill Simmons, Jenna Weiss Berman, and
- 1:10:48
me, Amy Polar. The show is produced by
- 1:10:50
The Ringer and Paperkite. For The
- 1:10:52
Ringer, production by Jack Wilson, Cat
- 1:10:54
Spalain, Kaia McMullen, and Aia Xanerys.
- 1:10:57
for Paperkite production by Sam Green,
- 1:11:00
Joel Levelvel, and Jenna Weiss Berman.
- 1:11:02
Original music by Amy Miles.
- 1:11:05
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