Transcript: Jon Hamm on Good Hang with Amy Poehler
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Hello everyone. Welcome to another
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episode of Good Hang. We have our old
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dear wonderful friend John Ham joining
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us today and we are so excited to have
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Ham Bones here today. We are going to
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talk about so much good stuff. We're
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going to talk about auditioning. We're
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going to talk about the best position in
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baseball. We're going to talk about Bad
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Bunny. We're going to talk about what he
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thinks Don Draper would be doing now.
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and we're going to talk about uh season
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two of his hit Apple show, Your Friends
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and Neighbors. John is just such a dear
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tenderoni underneath all that Superman
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muscle. And um so we're going to get
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into it today, but we're going to start
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um our episodes like we always do by
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talking to somebody who knows John. And
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uh we've got a great one today. We have
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Roger Sterling himself, John Slatterie,
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an incredible actor,
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director, writer, wonderful person who
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is like kind of one of John's chosen
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brothers. So, let's see what he has to
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say. Um, and get him on Zoom. Hi,
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All I ever wanted.
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>> Hi.
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>> Wow.
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>> Well, we're doing it. Slattery. I'm
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going to talk to Ham about this, but I
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just finished a Mad Men rewatch, by the
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way.
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>> Whoa.
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>> Wow.
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>> How long did that take you?
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>> A couple months. God, Roger Sterling is
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such an incredible character. such a
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complicated
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guy that you just cannot help but love
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and half the time you're like why do I
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love this guy?
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>> Although I mean not just him I think
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everybody had despite their
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wrongheadedness or whatever moment like
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just when you thought well this is just
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somebody who thinks like this
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they're do something incredibly human or
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funny or touching or whatever. I mean,
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he's that, you know, that thing those
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all those characters had that.
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>> Okay. So, did you and Ham know each
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other before you worked on Madmen?
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>> So, you met when
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>> I auditioned for his part and they said
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and I I remember call I called my agent
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back and was like, "Are you sure this is
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their part?" Cuz you know, I was beyond
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that age and they were like, "That's
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what they want." So, I did all my
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homework and went in and read. And then
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Matt and um Allan Taylor were there and
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then they said, "Okay, so here's the
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thing. We already have this guy."
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>> And I said, "Excuse me?" And they said,
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"Well, your part isn't really visible so
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much in the first episode, so there
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wasn't much for you to read. We didn't
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think you'd come in." And um I was a
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little like And then, you know, he said,
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"But I promise you this will be a great
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part." So then I met him and I was like,
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"Oh shit." You know, well, they
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certainly do have that guy. Like I
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realized, you know, oh that's what that
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guy looks like. Of course.
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>> Yeah.
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>> And then day one, he just sent me a
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picture the other night,
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two nights ago of the of his TV some
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wherever he was and and it was him at at
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the desk and me sitting across with a
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drink. And I said and I could tell from
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the suit and like my hair was diff
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something and I said, "Is that day one?"
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And he said, "Yeah,
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>> no way."
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>> Yeah. I mean, what's so satisfying about
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your relationship from afar is that the
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relationship you had on the show felt
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very brotherly. It really felt like big
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brother little brother energy. And if
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and is or is your relationship like that
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too? It feels like it.
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>> I think our relationship is more sort of
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equal like our age doesn't really come
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into it so much.
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>> Um
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>> and also he's such a competent person.
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It isn't like I have anything to teach
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him. It's often the other way. I was
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thinking about like well what would I
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ask him? What would I And it was um who
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does he look to for answers cuz
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sometimes I actually think what would
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Ham do like in a certain situation or
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whatever cuz he's just is you know he is
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good at most everything he puts his hand
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to and smart and accomp all that stuff
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and you kind of so so our relationship
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was more just kind of you know brotherly
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but not like a a
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older, younger, like it is in the show.
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>> What do you think makes John so
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competent in your words, like so good at
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so many things,
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>> you know, you have to be smart
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emotionally to be that funny and as you
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know, you know, you have to be observant
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and you have to listen and you have to
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so all that stuff
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goes into being good at very different
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things. I mean, he's it makes sense that
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he's as good at drama as he is at comedy
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because it's it's something that he's
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paid attention to
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for a long time. I mean, when I was a
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kid, I couldn't I would stand in front
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of the television. I wouldn't even sit
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down. I would just stand there with the
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clicker and go from Oscar Madison to
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Derek Jacabe to, you know, just get a
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chunk and then click go to get another
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one and see what I just get a piece of
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this and a piece of that. When it got
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slow or commercial, I'd go off to some
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other, you know, just like
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just a you know, a civ open just just
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wanting to I don't know why. I don't
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know what it was, but I just like
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wanting to to absorb everything. Wow,
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that's such an interesting and true
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observation is that when I watch TV, I
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watched it like what I imagine athletes
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do when they watch sports where they're
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watching for,
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you know, same. I watched performances
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unconsciously or subconsciously
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to get an idea of how to do it.
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>> My mother was a big movie fan. My dad
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was too, but my mother would she'd go,
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"Come in. You have to watch this." this
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and I'd have my coat on on my way out. I
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was like in high school or whatever and
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she'd go come and watch you have to
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watch this and I Sunset Boulevard or
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whatever some and I'd go like I have to
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go and she'd go just 5 minutes just
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watch. And then an hour and 20 minutes
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later I'd be sitting on the couch with
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my coat on next to her watching movie. I
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said I watched at her funeral I was
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saying I watched more movies with my
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coat on because I was you know sucked
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in.
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>> Yeah. Yeah. Well um Slatterie I love
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seeing you. I I'm
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>> You, too.
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>> I hope we get to hang out in some real
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way again. We We got to be on a We got
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to do a um a couple scenes together once
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on a silly show called Wet Hot American
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Summer in on Netflix. We got to perform
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together and it was really fun. So, I
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hope we get to do something again
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someday soon.
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>> Me, too. You know, I remember being so
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impressed that
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the difference between my own ability to
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sort of improvise and yours, which was
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like, oh, that's how that's a person who
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knows how to improvise on story, like
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not just
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divert and use some nugget that you have
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saved up or something, but like that you
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could do stuff
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that had to do with the actual action of
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the scene. And I was just sort of you
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and John early. I was watching this
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thing and I was thinking, man,
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>> these people are
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>> this is this is this is different.
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>> Well, when you don't quote remember your
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lines, you have to you have to have a
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trick.
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>> Yeah.
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>> You know, you have to you have to be
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like, look over there.
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>> Well, Slatterie, love you. Love seeing
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you. Give lots of love to Talia. Please
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give her my love.
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>> Will do. And um thank you so much for
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this and I'm sure Ham will be so happy
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that we talked.
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>> Have fun. Say hi to Ham.
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>> All right, buddy. Thank you so much.
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Okay, talk to you soon. Bye.
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>> Same, buddy. Same.
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>> Yeah. But I've been watching your
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podcast as I do for uh all my friends.
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But you I just love what you've done
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with the place and this it's I remember
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doing
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>> with Nick Offerman a million years ago,
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Smart Girls at the party. And I knew
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then
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>> you did
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>> that you had your finger on the pulse of
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something very very special and cool.
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And I'm glad that this is the further
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extension of that because it makes me
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very happy for you.
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>> Thank you for saying that. God, you've
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done so many favors for me. Um, but you
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did a you and Nick and a bunch of people
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did a
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>> I made you have a baby. That's like
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>> we have so much to talk about. I
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literally was not pregnant when the week
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started.
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>> I know.
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>> THAT WAS CRAZY.
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>> AND THEN BY THE END
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>> that was crazy
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>> having a baby.
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>> Well, and also you know what's amazing
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about that is that there is a physical
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marker of that time.
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>> I know. And it like we have known each
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other now for we're getting up on the
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>> 20 years.
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>> 20 years which is
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>> which seems crazy. It seems impossible.
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It does. Everything that I think is 10
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years now is 20 years. You
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>> know, pandemic really threw a whole
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weird thing in that.
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>> And the 80s to us are the 80s to our our
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kids are what the 20s were to us.
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>> Yeah, exactly. They're like, "Oh, the
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roaring 80s when everybody wore
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tuxedos."
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But I want to start John Ham.
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Um, the last time we saw you, you were
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getting on a hot air balloon on this
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podcast.
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>> Yes, I was I was on I think was I was on
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a hot air.
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>> You were shooting on a hot air
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>> medius rest
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>> and I hope you heard both the Adam Scott
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and Paul Red episode because we talked
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about you a lot
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and
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you know we have talked about you on
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this podcast and that like early
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grouping of guys and it does feel very
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fun and magical to talk about it not
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only because everybody was young and
- 12:24
like just beginning but it is feels kind
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of wild that you all met. Yeah, it's
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crazy. I mean, it's it's absolutely
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crazy. Through Paul, honestly,
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>> um here's how it started.
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>> Tell us the how the Avengers assemble.
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>> Yes, truly. At this point,
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>> um Paul went to
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>> Paul's an Avenger, right?
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>> Is an Avenger. Ant-Man.
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>> Okay, that's an Avenger
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>> apparently.
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>> Yeah.
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>> Avenging what? What? Why? Why you so
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angry?
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>> Cuz you have superpowers.
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>> You got a shitty superpower. You turn
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into ants. What the Come on.
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>> Come on, dude. Wrap it up. You did it.
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Grow up.
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>> Grow up. Literally
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>> Ant-Man.
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>> The next The next movie is Grow Up.
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>> Grow up, Antman.
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>> Okay.
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>> Anyways, um Paul is from Kansas City,
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Missouri. Yeah,
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>> I am from St. Louis, Missouri.
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>> Right.
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>> Paul went to the University of Kansas.
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My dear friend Preston Clark was his
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roommate freshman year at the University
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of Kansas.
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>> Paul would come back with his roommate
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Preston to visit St. Louis, holidays,
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long weekends, what what have you.
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>> Um, and we that's when we got to know
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one another. I was probably a a senior
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in high school and he was a freshman in
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in college.
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>> So that makes sense because there is
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this big brother energy that Adam and
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Paul have with you where you where you
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feel like they're big brother. You're
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only
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>> weird two or three years older.
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>> No, younger. I'm I'm younger than Paul
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and older than Adam.
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>> Oh, really?
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>> Yeah.
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>> But RD gives
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>> Paul also doesn't age and He has made a
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deal with the devil.
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>> There's there's a very terrible painting
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somewhere that is just really rough.
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>> But he gives you a lot of big brother
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energy in the way he talks about you.
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It's interesting. Why do you think that?
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>> I don't know. I don't know why. I mean,
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I think I've always You probably have
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had this experience with me, too. I've
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always represented older than I am.
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>> Yeah, I've heard you say that.
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>> Even when I was like a little kid, I was
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not little kid, but like when I was a a
- 14:20
teenager, they were like, "You're buying
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the beer." Is it cuz you know cuz you
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look kind of old. I'm like what? Thanks.
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>> Is it cuz you were tall?
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>> Tall. I have a deep voice. I I got a I
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got a beard early. Like I was just I
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don't know what it was. But it was it
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was very much that
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>> Yeah.
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>> I played all the adult roles in co, you
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know, like the
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>> high school and college,
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>> the real fun dad roles,
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>> you know, great,
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you know, and then like who's afraid of
- 14:46
Virginia Wolf when I'm like 19. like
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>> you should talk to Paula Pel who also
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talks about she always did the old like
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>> same same thing same energy there was
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something there I don't know
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>> I mean I I don't know but anyway so
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that's that's how I met Paul this and
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we're talking like 1989
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>> right
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>> maybe
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>> so you're in Missouri when you know each
- 15:05
other and you do you say to each other I
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want to be an actor so do I
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>> Paul uh decides he wants to be an actor
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he transfers from the uh University of
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Kansas to uh the American Academy of
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Dramatic Arts in Pasadena That's where
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he meets Adam,
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>> right? I see. Adam's a California kid
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that
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>> California kid who came down from Santa
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Cruz.
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>> Um, and then we all then this would have
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been in the early '9s. I graduate
- 15:29
college. I come out here in '94, '95,
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something like that. And we all there's
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this little percolating group of friends
- 15:35
that nobody has a job. Um,
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>> well, that's what I'm kind of
- 15:39
>> except Paul. Paul was already famous
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like he he had gotten
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>> early success with whatever it was. Um,
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>> Romeo and Juliet maybe. Yeah. Clueless.
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>> Clueless and Romeo and Juliet kind of
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were back to back.
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>> But what's fascinating is you unlike
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some other people who like go through a
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pipeline before you start working like
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you know the like the a Giuliard
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Conservatory or like Second City or
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whatever, you kind of go cold into LA.
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Come in, arrive.
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>> I knew one person, Paul.
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>> That was it. And I had an aunt and uncle
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that lived out here, so I had a I had a
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a place to to stay.
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>> Yeah. Um, and then I moved, you know, I
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found found an apartment, found a house
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to live in out in Silver Lake, which was
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very, you know, urban pioneering back
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then. Wasn't cool. I mean, it was cool,
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but it was very out on the edge.
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>> Yeah. The swing you took to come out
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here is very impressive to me because it
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is like, did you grow up knowing any
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actors?
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>> Did you know anyone that was an actor?
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>> No.
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>> And did you when you were in high school
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and like like when did you did you do
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plays? Were you like were you like the
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jock that did plays? Yeah, my high
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school was one of those magical places
- 16:49
that you were just encouraged to do
- 16:52
everything. You weren't siloed. If you
- 16:54
were a jock, you weren't just that.
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>> Yeah.
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>> And it was small,
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>> but everybody kind of knew each other.
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My graduating class was 95 kids.
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>> Yeah.
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>> So, I knew everybody in my class, and we
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we were kind of all friends. Like, you
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were friends with the violin kid, and
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you were friends with the
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>> weird uh beautiful artist, and the kid
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that could sing opera somehow at 16, you
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know. There was a lot of talented kids
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there. And in fact,
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>> from my school,
- 17:20
>> Ellie Keer,
- 17:21
>> yes.
- 17:22
>> Was one of my students when I went back
- 17:23
to teach.
- 17:24
>> I know. So great.
- 17:25
>> Uh Heather Golden Hirs, who was Tony
- 17:27
nominated actress. Um Stephanie Sandits,
- 17:30
uh Leslie Stevens, all these kids that
- 17:32
uh Sarah Clark, who was in my class, who
- 17:34
was on 24,
- 17:36
>> um who dated Paul Rudd, believe it or
- 17:38
not. Um,
- 17:40
so we had this kind of weird
- 17:42
concentrated energy that was very
- 17:45
creative, but we were encouraged.
- 17:47
>> So it was I I didn't know any actors,
- 17:50
but I I thought, well, why not me?
- 17:52
>> And they were like, we need a Willie
- 17:53
Lman. We need We need a tired salesman.
- 17:56
>> We need an 18-year-old Willie Lman with
- 17:59
the weight of the world on his
- 18:00
shoulders.
- 18:06
>> Ham will do it. Do you ever feel though
- 18:08
that you like could have been a Were you
- 18:10
ever good in a sport enough that you had
- 18:12
like dreams like every
- 18:14
>> I thought I was going to be a I thought
- 18:16
cuz also the other half of my growing up
- 18:18
was my best friend John Simmons's dad
- 18:20
was a professional baseball player.
- 18:22
>> Ah
- 18:22
>> so I was like a professional baseball
- 18:24
player I didn't know a professional
- 18:25
baseball player and I was like man one
- 18:28
of these days me and me and John Simmons
- 18:30
we're going to be we're going to play
- 18:32
for the Cardinals together probably.
- 18:33
>> Uh what position did you play?
- 18:35
>> I was a catcher. You were catcher. Yeah.
- 18:38
>> I always think of the catchers as the
- 18:40
the little
- 18:40
>> stocky guy. No, I was kind of the I was
- 18:43
always I was always this shape. I was
- 18:44
always lanky.
- 18:46
>> Mhm.
- 18:47
>> Um
- 18:48
>> lanky.
- 18:49
>> Yeah. Right. Would you say I'm lanky?
- 18:51
Kind of lanky.
- 18:51
>> I mean, I don't want to describe your
- 18:53
body back to you, but I wouldn't use
- 18:54
lanky.
- 18:56
>> I I feel lanky.
- 18:58
>> Yeah.
- 18:58
>> Maybe. Am I using that word wrong? Well,
- 19:00
>> kind of long limbmed and
- 19:02
>> but I feel like you got shoulders. I
- 19:04
feel like Lang to carry the weight of
- 19:06
the world.
- 19:09
>> You need it for your briefcase.
- 19:11
>> All the both of the
- 19:12
>> sample cases that I Oh god.
- 19:16
>> Okay. So, catcher, which I have to say
- 19:18
in all I used to play softball and all
- 19:20
the positions I my two favorite
- 19:22
positions were catcher and second base.
- 19:25
>> Interesting.
- 19:26
>> Catcher because I felt like catcher
- 19:28
catcher. Yeah. You're in every play and
- 19:30
you're just like you're kind of like a
- 19:32
coach in a way. Yeah, a little bit.
- 19:34
You're telling everywhere to go and
- 19:35
you're running the running the room.
- 19:36
That's what I liked about it, too.
- 19:37
>> And second base for almost the opposite
- 19:39
reason, which is you're like, I I don't
- 19:41
I thought you had it
- 19:43
>> like second base is a little bit like
- 19:46
over here.
- 19:48
Like, you know, you're just like I
- 19:49
>> And honestly, in the hierarchy of who
- 19:51
gets to call like a popup, second base
- 19:53
is like the last.
- 19:54
>> Yeah. Second base is like I wanted to
- 19:56
get it. I just it was over I thought
- 19:58
>> closer to you.
- 19:59
>> But you can chat, you can chitchat a lot
- 20:01
in second base
- 20:01
>> and a short throw. short to first.
- 20:03
>> Oh yeah. I mean, I didn't have the arm.
- 20:04
I never had the arm, but I had the
- 20:06
mouth.
- 20:07
>> Okay. So,
- 20:12
>> so there was a party that was like, I'm
- 20:13
going to catch for the Cardinals. And
- 20:15
then
- 20:16
>> Yeah. And then I But here's here's what
- 20:18
it really was is that I realized
- 20:20
probably even when I was still in in
- 20:22
high school, I was like, "Oh, there's
- 20:23
people that are way better than me at
- 20:25
this." Like like way way way better than
- 20:27
me at this.
- 20:28
>> Yeah. And so I kind of like I was early
- 20:31
disabused of that notion. Very very just
- 20:33
I was kind of like
- 20:34
>> eh.
- 20:35
>> And also I realized that
- 20:38
>> and I have a lot of friends now that are
- 20:40
that are professional athletes and
- 20:41
you're like it's a job.
- 20:43
>> Yeah. Big time.
- 20:44
>> It's 24/7. Even in the offseason you're
- 20:47
training, you're training. So you better
- 20:48
love it.
- 20:49
>> I know.
- 20:50
>> And I was like I like it.
- 20:52
>> Yeah.
- 20:52
>> I don't love it.
- 20:53
>> I know. And with sports, um,
- 20:58
when I watched sports or when even when
- 21:00
I played sports, I was I didn't feel
- 21:02
like I was playing or watching to like
- 21:05
know how to do it for life.
- 21:08
>> You were enjoying it.
- 21:09
>> Yes.
- 21:09
>> It's like a hobby.
- 21:10
>> But with television and film, I
- 21:12
definitely watched it very intently.
- 21:14
>> Oh, me too.
- 21:15
>> Yeah.
- 21:15
>> So, to to put a point on the end of that
- 21:17
story of like not loving not loving it
- 21:19
enough to want to do it professionally,
- 21:21
I love what I do now.
- 21:22
>> Yeah.
- 21:22
>> I mean, I really do. Yeah.
- 21:32
>> of a career that you can look back on
- 21:34
and go, "Man, I'm I'm pretty proud of
- 21:35
that stuff."
- 21:36
>> Yeah.
- 21:37
>> I love that.
- 21:37
>> You did Shakespeare in Do you Sh Do you
- 21:40
did Shakespeare in theater?
- 21:42
>> Yeah. In college. Yeah.
- 21:43
>> Do you understand Shakespeare? What's
- 21:45
happening there?
- 21:47
>> I thought it was pronounced Hamlet.
- 21:49
Apparently, it's Hamnett.
- 21:50
>> Yes. I just found out it was Hammet.
- 21:51
>> Uh, no. I I I did I I really loved sh of
- 21:55
reading.
- 21:56
>> This is part of when when I kind of
- 21:59
figured out maybe I was going to be an
- 22:01
actor
- 22:02
>> is that I would read plays as a little I
- 22:05
read like a bananas weirdo when I was a
- 22:08
kid
- 22:09
>> because I was a single a single mom.
- 22:11
>> Yeah.
- 22:11
>> And an only child.
- 22:12
>> Yes.
- 22:13
>> So there was that was it. There were no
- 22:15
internet. There were no phones.
- 22:18
>> Uh video games were rudimentary.
- 22:21
>> Yeah. Uh, so it was about reading and we
- 22:24
had tons of books everywhere and I had a
- 22:25
library card. Um, so I would go to the
- 22:27
library, I would check out books and I
- 22:29
would check out comedy records.
- 22:30
>> Yes.
- 22:31
>> Those are the two things that I got.
- 22:32
>> What did you check out? Do you remember?
- 22:34
>> I mean, it was bananas that I was a
- 22:36
seven-year-old boy and I had like
- 22:38
Richard Prior records.
- 22:40
>> Yeah.
- 22:41
>> The name of which I will not say out
- 22:43
loud, but you can find out what it's
- 22:45
called.
- 22:46
>> Yeah. Um, and
- 22:49
but but also like Steve Martin, Bob
- 22:51
Newhart, George Carlin, like just the
- 22:54
stuff that was whatever was there.
- 22:55
>> And what were your series? What books
- 22:56
were you reading? Like what kind of
- 22:58
series did you love as a kid?
- 22:59
>> I read there wasn't really I don't I
- 23:02
don't remember there being like um YA,
- 23:05
you know, stuff like that. It wasn't
- 23:07
really like
- 23:07
>> I mean I I feel like Little House in the
- 23:09
Prairie was for us kind of
- 23:10
>> kind of which I didn't really read. It
- 23:12
was kind of for girls.
- 23:13
>> No, it was for girls. Um, but I read
- 23:15
>> it's for boys, too.
- 23:16
>> It is for everyone. It's a lovely story.
- 23:19
By the way, I did I did read I did read
- 23:20
those.
- 23:21
>> Um, I read plays
- 23:23
>> and it was it was something that I would
- 23:26
I don't know why I was attracted to them
- 23:27
or whatever. I think I was
- 23:29
>> you said earlier about watching TV and
- 23:32
like watching it to learn about it. And
- 23:34
that was what I thought the plays were.
- 23:36
And I would read them and I would read
- 23:38
them out loud to myself.
- 23:39
>> Yeah.
- 23:40
>> So my mom was like, "You're a weird
- 23:42
kid." Um, but it was I would that was
- 23:45
the f looking back I think that was the
- 23:48
first time I would think, "Oh, maybe I
- 23:50
want to do this for real."
- 23:52
>> Um, your mom passed away when you were
- 23:54
young when you were 10. What was she
- 23:57
like?
- 23:57
>> She was a a professional secretary.
- 24:01
>> She was a very accomplished lady. She
- 24:03
was the oldest of six kids.
- 24:05
>> Um, she was I don't know. She was just
- 24:10
she was my mom, you know. It was like
- 24:11
one of those I loved her.
- 24:13
>> We had an amazing relationship.
- 24:16
>> Um it's I say this to people all the
- 24:19
time. There's never a good time to lose
- 24:21
a parent. It stinks. It just does.
- 24:24
>> I lost my mom when I was 10, my dad when
- 24:26
I was 20,
- 24:27
>> but I have friends that are our age now
- 24:29
that just lost their parents that are
- 24:31
just as devastated.
- 24:32
>> Yeah.
- 24:33
>> So, it was um it was brief, but it was
- 24:36
significant.
- 24:37
>> Yeah. uh my relationship with her and
- 24:40
and I still have probably the closest
- 24:43
family member in my life is my aunt, her
- 24:45
younger sister,
- 24:46
>> who was the cool aunt cuz she moved out
- 24:48
here to California.
- 24:49
>> Yeah.
- 24:49
>> And that's who you lived with when you
- 24:51
came out here.
- 24:51
>> Yeah. My aunt Sue.
- 24:52
>> Yeah. Yeah. Because I mean I feels like
- 24:54
Hambones the the um theme of a lot of
- 24:58
your work and the things you do is like
- 25:01
like finding your family like collecting
- 25:04
them, choosing them, making it like and
- 25:07
you're in a you're in a business that
- 25:09
does that too.
- 25:10
>> Yeah. you kind of, you know, it's like
- 25:11
the circus comes to town and you make
- 25:12
new friends and
- 25:14
>> um, you know, being on a show as we both
- 25:17
were for an extended period of time,
- 25:20
>> you definitely you definitely forge
- 25:22
relationships that are that are pretty
- 25:24
solid, you know, and and and don't
- 25:26
really
- 25:27
>> uh dissipate once the once the circus
- 25:30
moves on.
- 25:30
>> Yeah, I know. If you're lucky.
- 25:32
>> If you're lucky. If you're lucky. And
- 25:34
that's the that's the thing you were
- 25:35
talking about, I think, with the people
- 25:36
part of it is like,
- 25:38
>> you know, you meet
- 25:39
>> we're all kind of crazy weirdos, you
- 25:41
know, with different talents, but boy,
- 25:43
you when you see when certain people
- 25:44
come through your orbit and you're like,
- 25:46
man, that that person's amazing at that.
- 25:49
>> Well, you must feel that way about
- 25:51
people, too, because
- 25:54
>> I mean, do you ever get this feeling? I
- 25:55
get this feeling a lot where like I meet
- 25:56
somebody and I'm like, oh, I you know,
- 25:59
we've known each other before in another
- 26:01
way
- 26:02
>> some a lot. And and I kind Am I wrong
- 26:05
that Slatterie feels like that for you?
- 26:08
>> Yeah, that's my big brother. If I if I
- 26:11
had a big brother, it would be him.
- 26:13
Yeah,
- 26:13
>> I was um
- 26:15
I was just watching I had I have not
- 26:18
watched Mad Men Back since uh
- 26:20
>> I just finished and I've been and I I I
- 26:24
think I say sometimes on this podcast
- 26:26
the best thing about knowing other
- 26:28
actors is sometimes you get to text them
- 26:30
and be like, "I'm watching your show
- 26:32
right now. You're so good." And I think
- 26:34
I just did that to you recently. You
- 26:36
watched it. Well, that must have been
- 26:37
the impetus for me starting it because
- 26:39
Anna, my wife Anna and I had hadn't
- 26:42
really wa I hadn't watched it back.
- 26:43
>> Wow.
- 26:44
>> Since the first time and um so we're on
- 26:47
like episode five or six now and I and I
- 26:49
text immedately texted
- 26:51
>> what happens. Don't tell me.
- 26:54
>> Um I texted slide took a picture of it
- 26:56
and texted Slattery and was just like
- 26:58
remember this day? It was the first day
- 26:59
we shot and I just remember all that
- 27:01
stuff and it was wild. It was very wild.
- 27:03
Obviously, that was 20 years ago, 15
- 27:06
years ago. Um, 20 years ago.
- 27:09
>> Well, we um I don't usually bring this
- 27:12
up early in the in the in the podcast,
- 27:14
but I will now because it makes sense.
- 27:16
So, you know, we do this thing where we
- 27:17
talk well behind somebody's back before
- 27:19
and we talked to Slatterie today
- 27:21
>> and he's the best and and he loves you
- 27:24
and
- 27:25
>> we talked about just that about and it
- 27:27
was funny because I said, "Do you feel
- 27:28
like a big brother to John?" And he said
- 27:30
in a very big brotherly way. He was
- 27:33
like, "I feel like we're equals. I feel
- 27:35
like I learn as much from John as he
- 27:37
learns from me. I feel like I'm not
- 27:38
teaching him things. I just feel like
- 27:39
we're um" But that's also a very big
- 27:42
brother thing to say, by the way.
- 27:43
>> Yeah. Yeah. And I mean, part of it was,
- 27:45
you know, it's funny for me, too,
- 27:47
because I remember the first couple
- 27:49
episodes or the first season of shooting
- 27:51
the show, and his son Harry was six, as
- 27:54
was Kieran, who played my daughter on
- 27:56
the show, Sally.
- 27:57
>> And now they're 26.
- 27:59
>> Yeah. this lightning and bottle thing
- 28:00
that just all of a sudden happens. I
- 28:02
point to mad men and and think like I
- 28:04
worked very hard to get in that room.
- 28:06
>> Well, I think a lot of people know this.
- 28:08
You worked hard and you grind you were
- 28:10
really grinding
- 28:10
>> for sure.
- 28:11
>> Like you you were working probably for
- 28:13
10 years in different in a lot of
- 28:14
different things and
- 28:15
>> not quite 10 but but but a solid six or
- 28:17
seven years a as as a working actor on
- 28:21
stuff that nobody watched. Mhm.
- 28:24
>> Um
- 28:26
just
- 28:26
>> did you ever get close to stuff where
- 28:28
you were
- 28:29
>> everything? I was I was the other guy
- 28:32
>> in every thing. And in fact,
- 28:35
>> the year I I got madman, I had I had
- 28:38
tested when we used to do that seven
- 28:41
times.
- 28:42
>> I'd gone to the network the last step
- 28:44
before you get hired.
- 28:46
>> Seven times
- 28:46
>> for seven different projects.
- 28:48
>> Seven different projects. 047.
- 28:50
>> What do you do? Do you remember what
- 28:52
some of them were? I don't really
- 28:54
>> like sitcoms and
- 28:55
>> stuff, you know.
- 28:56
>> Yeah.
- 28:57
>> That you know, and and in the old days
- 29:00
now it just feels like everything gets
- 29:01
gets produced.
- 29:03
>> In the old days it was like they do a
- 29:04
pilot, they'd test it, they'd see if it
- 29:06
worked, maybe you'd get fired, which I
- 29:08
did on several occasions.
- 29:10
>> Um and and it's it's such a bananas way
- 29:15
to do it, but that was the that was how
- 29:18
it was. And the Mad Men audition process
- 29:20
you've talked about many times, but it
- 29:22
was arduous.
- 29:23
>> Arduous. It started I started at the
- 29:25
very very bottom. The first
- 29:28
>> audition was a a pre-eread just reading
- 29:31
with the casting directors. They didn't
- 29:32
know my work. Not that they would. And
- 29:35
it was in Santa Monica and I lived in
- 29:38
Silverlake.
- 29:39
>> So it was like an hour and a half to get
- 29:41
across town in the rain on a Friday. And
- 29:43
I met them and there was another kid
- 29:46
sitting in the waiting room and he was
- 29:49
like it's like a 16 17 year old kid and
- 29:51
I was like in the right place like
- 29:52
what's he goes are you here for the
- 29:53
toothpaste dad? I go what? Uh no. Then I
- 29:58
was like what what toothpaste?
- 30:01
They're looking for somebody
- 30:03
>> an older guy the world on his shoulders
- 30:05
team
- 30:07
>> and it was literally they were casting a
- 30:09
the other room was a casting a
- 30:11
commercial and then this was they were
- 30:12
like no no no we're in here hi sorry
- 30:14
sorry and I was like hi nice to meet you
- 30:16
>> wow
- 30:16
>> the next day was another one of those
- 30:20
few days later was then more and more
- 30:22
people are in the waiting room then you
- 30:24
start to see people that have signed up
- 30:26
you're like
- 30:27
>> I recognize that guy's name he was on
- 30:29
sports night he'll probably get it Yeah.
- 30:31
>> Um, and it was that that that that
- 30:34
>> six, seven, eight times. And then they
- 30:36
finally I got to New York. They flew me
- 30:37
to New York
- 30:38
>> on somebody's miles.
- 30:40
>> Wow.
- 30:42
>> And uh
- 30:43
>> when you went in for that last one, did
- 30:46
you
- 30:46
>> The last one was was was meet the
- 30:48
executives. And Matthew Winer, to his
- 30:50
great credit, he goes, I I go, do I have
- 30:52
this job? Like what's happening? You're
- 30:53
flying me to New York.
- 30:55
>> Yeah. He goes, "I'm going to walk you
- 30:56
around the production office and I'm
- 30:57
going to introduce you as Don Draper and
- 30:59
you're going to act like you have the
- 31:01
job."
- 31:01
>> Oh god, that's giving me
- 31:05
>> and he's like, "Hey, we this is our Don,
- 31:07
you know, it's John. Say hi to the cat
- 31:09
the the costume designer and the hair
- 31:10
and makeup and we're going to do this."
- 31:12
And he's walking me around this whole
- 31:13
thing. And I'm like, I've not heard
- 31:15
officially from anybody anything.
- 31:16
>> Oh my god.
- 31:17
>> So then we go to to meet the executives
- 31:20
from AMC who are these four very young
- 31:22
executives.
- 31:24
>> Yeah. AMC was a young company. Brand
- 31:26
new. Hadn't done anything. And we go and
- 31:28
we have drinks and we're having a drink
- 31:29
and I'm with Matt and Scott Hornbach are
- 31:31
the two producers and and and the the
- 31:33
three executives and kind of holding my
- 31:35
drink and I'm like, "What what are we
- 31:37
what is this? What are we doing? Is this
- 31:39
this is if this is a prank?
- 31:41
>> This is the most elaborate, meanest
- 31:44
>> prank." Yeah.
- 31:45
>> And so we're having drinks and they're
- 31:47
like, "Here's to the show." And I'm
- 31:48
like, "Yeah, here's to the show."
- 31:50
And I drink the drink and we go and and
- 31:52
and and uh and I'm like we get it into
- 31:56
the elevator. They still haven't said
- 31:58
anything. And and uh and the lady who's
- 32:00
in charge finally turns to me. She goes,
- 32:01
"You know you got the job, right?" I go,
- 32:03
>> "Oh my god,
- 32:04
>> no, I didn't.
- 32:06
This would have been way more fun
- 32:08
earlier when we were having drinks to
- 32:10
toast." And I said, "No, we didn't." And
- 32:13
been and we go down the elevator and the
- 32:15
elevator doors open up. There's a
- 32:16
million paparazzi in the in the in the
- 32:18
lobby of the Maritime Hotel. And I'm
- 32:20
like, "Oh my god." Like, "Wow, that's
- 32:22
that was fast." Like, "Holy shit." But
- 32:25
they're all speaking German. I'm not
- 32:27
making this up. Uh in the elevator with
- 32:29
me was a very famous German football
- 32:31
player named uh France Beckenbower or
- 32:34
one of the like lions of the German
- 32:37
Bundesliga, what have you. And I was
- 32:41
like, "Oh, I was there for him. Never
- 32:43
mind.
- 32:45
>> GUYS, GUYS, GUYS, I'M NOT GIVING
- 32:47
INTERVIEWS YET.
- 32:48
>> Not yet.
- 32:48
>> Let me get some.
- 32:49
>> Let me just
- 32:51
>> Oh, in German. It's Yeah, that's him.
- 32:52
>> Okay, just a few madman questions. I
- 32:54
know you know the show is I just John.
- 32:59
>> I
- 33:00
>> that part you, that writing, that show,
- 33:03
that show is Hall of Fame.
- 33:07
>> Thank you.
- 33:07
>> And Hall of Fame performance.
- 33:08
>> I don't disagree. I think it's a it's a
- 33:10
great show. I was I was I was pleasantly
- 33:14
surprised watching it back to to to not
- 33:16
be mortified.
- 33:17
>> I'm so happy to hear that cuz it is just
- 33:19
pristine. And your performance is so
- 33:23
good, so measured, so controlled, and it
- 33:26
like all the characters in the show
- 33:27
starts to unravel in the perfect way.
- 33:29
>> It does pay off. That's what's really I
- 33:31
think really nice about the show is that
- 33:33
as it as it does unravel, it kind of is
- 33:35
a satisfying payoff for for kind of
- 33:37
everybody
- 33:38
>> thematically. This idea that like
- 33:41
The character of John Draper is being
- 33:43
presented in this way which we like
- 33:45
project all this stuff on him just like
- 33:47
we would any ad any version of like a
- 33:50
person and then we realize he is a
- 33:52
person like we all are like but
- 33:55
>> heavily flawed.
- 33:56
>> Heavily flawed but yet what I love about
- 33:58
the show is people change but not a lot.
- 34:01
Yeah.
- 34:01
>> So there's never like
- 34:04
>> Matt Matt has said and I think it's a
- 34:06
great way to describe it. He said, "I
- 34:08
want people to realize that the the
- 34:11
characters are are going to be just a
- 34:14
little bit better at the end. Just a
- 34:16
little bit."
- 34:17
>> Yeah.
- 34:17
>> You know, just a little change. And and
- 34:19
Don,
- 34:20
>> my god, you know, the the whole arc of
- 34:23
the final season is him sort of shedding
- 34:26
everything, his family, his job, his
- 34:28
stuff, his and he ends up on the end of
- 34:30
the continent.
- 34:31
>> Yeah.
- 34:32
>> At the very end of the continent. And
- 34:33
that's kind of when he realizes like,
- 34:35
"Oh, wait. I'm really good at this job.
- 34:37
I should probably just go back and do
- 34:38
the job that I'm really good at.
- 34:39
>> And my question to you is having
- 34:41
rewatched and I don't know if you
- 34:42
remember, but at the end you're uh Don
- 34:47
lets everything go, can you just tell me
- 34:50
about the scene in the group uh the
- 34:53
group therapy scene where that wonderful
- 34:57
day player, sorry I don't know his name,
- 34:59
actor
- 35:00
>> breaks down because he feels invisible.
- 35:03
Can you tell me about that day and
- 35:06
reading that because that's a big scene
- 35:08
to do at the end of seven seasons with
- 35:10
someone who's not
- 35:12
>> you don't know.
- 35:13
>> I don't I don't That was the whole last
- 35:16
half of that season for me
- 35:18
>> was being away from everybody that I had
- 35:21
spent
- 35:21
>> That's right.
- 35:22
>> 90 other episodes with.
- 35:23
>> That's right. That's right.
- 35:25
>> Slatty and I did our last scene. It's
- 35:28
kind of a It's kind of a weird little
- 35:31
nothing scene. It was just us in a bar
- 35:33
talking about something. And I said,
- 35:34
"You know, this is our last scene
- 35:35
together."
- 35:36
>> And he goes, "What?"
- 35:39
Cuz it was like three episodes before we
- 35:40
were done. He's like, "No, it isn't." I
- 35:42
go,
- 35:43
>> "Wow."
- 35:44
>> He goes, "No." I go, "Yeah."
- 35:48
And it was it's kind of great that it's
- 35:50
just that that moment. It's just that's
- 35:52
what it is. And then you don't see that
- 35:54
guy.
- 35:55
>> So, there was a lot of that stuff for me
- 35:57
and a lot of a lot of It was
- 36:00
tremendously difficult. Yeah,
- 36:01
>> cuz I was handling a lot of personal
- 36:05
Mishagos in my life. A lot of craziness.
- 36:07
And just being on a show for that long
- 36:09
>> is a lot.
- 36:10
>> And saying goodbye to it.
- 36:11
>> Saying goodbye to it. It's a grief. It's
- 36:13
a grieving process. You know it very
- 36:14
well.
- 36:15
>> Um, so that particular scene and we were
- 36:18
we we shot out of order. That wasn't the
- 36:20
last thing we shot obviously, but we we
- 36:23
were on location. We were up in Big Su.
- 36:25
>> Yeah. So we were even physically
- 36:28
separated from uh most the stages, all
- 36:31
the stuff
- 36:33
>> um our trailers. I was living in a hotel
- 36:35
like it was it was so it was like four
- 36:36
or five days in a row
- 36:38
>> up there
- 36:39
>> and it was heavy. It was super heavy
- 36:42
work.
- 36:42
>> Yeah.
- 36:43
>> Um
- 36:44
>> you I very much felt the weight of the
- 36:50
end of the show
- 36:51
>> and and the responsibility of like
- 36:54
>> don't this up. You can
- 36:56
anything else up, but you cannot
- 36:59
this up. This is the end of a very,
- 37:01
very, very long story, and if you
- 37:04
the bed on this, it's not going to that
- 37:06
will be what you are known for. Um, but
- 37:08
I do remember that thinking that this
- 37:11
kid is killing it. It was wonderful. And
- 37:13
um, everyone in the there were a lot of
- 37:15
like writers, interspers,
- 37:16
>> for those people that have never watched
- 37:18
Mad Men, don't listen to this part.
- 37:21
But it is there is a moment not to give
- 37:24
too much away for people that haven't
- 37:25
seen it but I mean it has been 20 years
- 37:27
but where past the spoiler part John is
- 37:30
like gone basically to like an eelin
- 37:33
like like retreat and to basically like
- 37:36
to your point he's lost everything and
- 37:38
he's in what is
- 37:39
>> an early version of group therapy and
- 37:42
the closest he's ever had to actually
- 37:44
really truly sitting in his feelings and
- 37:48
a man
- 37:50
>> another man who he doesn't know is
- 37:52
expressing this thing that John
- 37:55
understands really well.
- 37:57
>> Deep dissatisfaction, deep un un um
- 38:02
>> what's the right word?
- 38:02
>> Unworthiness. Unworthiness. Yeah. Maybe
- 38:05
not being loved.
- 38:06
>> Invisibility you said earlier that whole
- 38:08
kind of thing and there's a refrigerator
- 38:09
and all this. It's like it's a beautiful
- 38:11
piece of writing.
- 38:12
>> Um and it's it's an incredibly emotional
- 38:16
moment not only for this man but for
- 38:17
Dawn. And there's a there's a connection
- 38:19
that they have and
- 38:20
>> Okay. Well, I want to slow it down
- 38:21
because,
- 38:24
>> you know, I like to talk to the TV.
- 38:28
>> By the way, I did not know that, but I I
- 38:30
can imagine that. I'm an old lady. I can
- 38:32
imagine.
- 38:32
>> I also am an old person in in a young
- 38:34
younger person's body.
- 38:36
>> But I paused in this moment and I was
- 38:39
just like, this is John Ham. Like I was
- 38:42
like, this is like the the moment when
- 38:45
you approach and hug that man.
- 38:48
is such good acting. It's so you're it's
- 38:52
like John. It's so so good.
- 38:57
You you did stick the landing. You
- 38:59
nailed it.
- 39:00
>> I felt very very good about what I did
- 39:02
on the show.
- 39:03
>> And it was like it was like masculinity
- 39:06
which a lot of the show is about and we
- 39:09
are all like look like John Draper, John
- 39:12
Ham, Amy Polar. We're all like living in
- 39:14
a patriarchal world and trying to figure
- 39:16
it out. and suffering in different ways.
- 39:20
That moment when like two strangers, men
- 39:23
of that generation are hugging, it is so
- 39:26
moving.
- 39:27
>> Well, and it's because you don't really
- 39:30
Don gets there on under such duress and
- 39:33
it's such a strange journey that he ends
- 39:36
up there and he's he's lost this
- 39:38
connection with his his job, his his
- 39:40
family, his his everything. It's really
- 39:42
the Sedarta kind of moment of just shed
- 39:44
everything and to discover who you
- 39:46
really are. And there's a moment and of
- 39:48
course
- 39:49
>> the the opening sequence of the show is
- 39:52
this man falling out of a building and
- 39:53
everyone's like this is where he does
- 39:55
it. He's going to jump off the cliff.
- 39:57
He's going to kill himself. This is the
- 39:58
end of the show. He's going to die,
- 40:00
>> right?
- 40:01
>> And it's it could have gone that way. I
- 40:04
think there's a version of this story
- 40:06
where Don doesn't get it and doesn't
- 40:08
allow himself to understand it and is so
- 40:11
overcome with his emotion and his
- 40:14
feeling of inadequacy and failure and
- 40:17
what he's what he has failed at
- 40:19
>> as a as a husband, as a friend, as a
- 40:21
father, as a fill in the blank that he
- 40:24
does do that.
- 40:25
>> Y
- 40:25
>> but he doesn't.
- 40:28
>> Yeah. Yeah.
- 40:28
>> He kind of takes it in, takes the
- 40:30
moment, feels the feelings for real, and
- 40:35
has the moment of clarity where he goes
- 40:37
like, you know, and it's beautifully
- 40:39
rendered with Coke, the Coke ad, and the
- 40:42
iconic kind of moment of this, and he's
- 40:44
like, this is who I am. I'm an ad man.
- 40:46
>> So, he go, do you think he goes back?
- 40:49
>> Yeah.
- 40:49
>> And
- 40:51
where what do you think happens for the
- 40:53
rest of his life? Like, how what is the
- 40:54
what is the last act of Don's life? What
- 40:57
do you think it is?
- 40:58
>> Lung cancer.
- 41:04
>> Um,
- 41:04
>> yes.
- 41:05
>> I mean, for sure. Uh, I I think he goes
- 41:09
back. He is a successful advertising
- 41:11
executive and I think he finds happiness
- 41:13
and peace. I think he connects with his
- 41:15
children.
- 41:16
>> Yes.
- 41:17
>> Um, as we know, Betty passes away. Yeah.
- 41:21
Um,
- 41:22
>> you and January,
- 41:24
>> you and January, you and Lizzy, you and
- 41:27
Slatterie, you and
- 41:28
>> Christina, incredibly, incredibly lucky.
- 41:31
My one of my favorite scenes in the
- 41:32
whole show is the the the scene between
- 41:35
I can't remember. I think it's season
- 41:36
five, season 4 where we see Don and Joan
- 41:39
kind of go out on a night on the town.
- 41:42
>> It's incredible. I mean, Don and Joan
- 41:43
never had enough scenes together as far
- 41:44
as I was concerned.
- 41:45
>> That's what kind of made it great was
- 41:47
that there were like two or three.
- 41:48
Everyone in that show is just pitch
- 41:50
perfect. And and you brought up the
- 41:53
smoking. What did you have to smoke?
- 41:55
>> They were like those fake herbal
- 41:56
cigarettes,
- 41:57
>> but I think somebody did somebody
- 41:59
watched the pilot just to watch how many
- 42:02
cigarettes I smoke. And I think it was
- 42:03
something like 80
- 42:08
in a one-hour pilot.
- 42:17
So, uh, Parks and Recreation and Mad Men
- 42:19
were on at the same time.
- 42:20
>> We were in We were We were fellow
- 42:21
travelers.
- 42:22
>> We were fellow travelers. And we shared,
- 42:24
um, uh, you and I shared two things. We
- 42:26
shared a production designer and Dan
- 42:28
Bishop who did your show and did we used
- 42:31
to brag like, "Oh, the bullpen of um,
- 42:34
you know, the offices of Parks and Wreck
- 42:36
were designed by the same guy that did
- 42:38
Madmen." And people were like, "Cool."
- 42:40
Um,
- 42:40
>> I can tell
- 42:42
>> that was a big brag. We were like, um,
- 42:44
and he's a love. Yeah, he's a great guy.
- 42:46
And, um, the other thing is that you and
- 42:50
I were at award shows many, many times
- 42:53
>> on the losing end.
- 42:54
>> On the losing end. And so, uh, I got to
- 42:57
get to Slatterie's question. Sorry, I'm
- 42:58
all over the place, but I got to get to
- 42:59
Slatter's question. But before that,
- 43:00
let's talk about Losers Lounge, which
- 43:02
you mentioned in the very beginning.
- 43:03
What was it?
- 43:04
>> The Losers Lounge was a thing that we
- 43:06
decided to do after being fed up with
- 43:08
losing. Yeah.
- 43:10
>> Like, let's take let's turn this frown
- 43:12
upside down.
- 43:13
>> Yeah.
- 43:14
>> Let's not live in the
- 43:16
>> we're not losers, we're winners.
- 43:17
>> We're winners.
- 43:19
>> Only losers lose.
- 43:20
>> Only losers lose. And we are not losers.
- 43:22
>> No way.
- 43:23
>> So, we decided that and I I still think
- 43:26
this is a great idea. I think we should
- 43:27
have patented it and I think it should
- 43:29
have been permanent.
- 43:30
>> Yeah.
- 43:31
>> That because also any awards night
- 43:34
there's way more people that lost than
- 43:36
one.
- 43:36
>> Oh, yeah. So, we decided that there
- 43:39
should be a celebratory place for the
- 43:41
losers to hang out, the losers lounge.
- 43:43
And if you wanted to come and you were a
- 43:45
winner and you had a statue in your
- 43:47
hand, you had to pay.
- 43:49
>> Yeah. You had to pay up.
- 43:50
>> You had to pay up
- 43:51
>> to charity.
- 43:51
>> To charity. It was all a charity thing.
- 43:53
It was a lovely char. Worldwide Orphans,
- 43:54
I believe it was.
- 43:55
>> That's right.
- 43:56
>> Um, and the rest of us could get in and
- 43:58
have a good time for free. And it was a
- 44:00
fun party.
- 44:01
>> We So, we threw a party a couple years
- 44:03
in a row.
- 44:03
>> Soho House, I think it was a couple
- 44:05
different places.
- 44:06
>> We had a dance off. We had a pants off,
- 44:07
dance off
- 44:08
>> and everybody wanted to get in. And the
- 44:10
highlight for me was I think I told you
- 44:12
the story. The highlight for me at the
- 44:14
Emmys was the great my hero idol Francis
- 44:18
McDorman won for I believe it was maybe
- 44:21
Olive Kiddage or one one of the many
- 44:24
incredible things she done. She won and
- 44:26
as she was walking up the aisle with her
- 44:29
Emmy, she turned me and she goes, "Does
- 44:30
this mean I can't go to the losers
- 44:32
lounge?"
- 44:33
>> And you said, "Yeah." And I was like,
- 44:35
"Yeah, you're gonna have to pay."
- 44:38
>> And I was like,
- 44:39
>> she did.
- 44:39
>> She did. She came and paid.
- 44:40
>> She came and paid.
- 44:41
>> Um that time of like being at those
- 44:44
places together and losing was so fun
- 44:48
because of course who cares. And also
- 44:52
the everyone's work was so great.
- 44:54
Everyone was such a fan of everybody.
- 44:56
>> We were all doing great stuff cuz Tina
- 44:57
was on 30 Rock at the time. You were
- 44:59
doing Parks.
- 45:00
>> I was doing Mad Man. We had that one
- 45:02
crazy fun night. I broke my toe.
- 45:04
>> Well, you broke your toe.
- 45:07
>> Uhoh.
- 45:08
>> And we were like you and me and Tina and
- 45:11
Claire Danes and we were all like
- 45:13
>> dancing dancing like insane people like
- 45:17
it was the last night on earth.
- 45:18
>> Yeah. And I was Tina had to get on a
- 45:21
plane the next day and like describes
- 45:23
like getting on a plane and like looking
- 45:25
at the floor and there's like a pile of
- 45:26
hair.
- 45:28
>> She was like, "What happened?"
- 45:30
>> I'm going to beat that. I had just had
- 45:32
my second child.
- 45:33
>> Oh my god. I know.
- 45:34
>> And I flew in for the weekend cuz I was
- 45:38
Well, yeah. I must I forget. I was in
- 45:39
New York and I flew I flew to California
- 45:41
for the thing.
- 45:42
>> I broke my toe on the banquet dancing.
- 45:45
I'm a mother of two.
- 45:47
>> I can't very young children.
- 45:50
>> I can't walk in the airport. I'm like I
- 45:52
wake up the next morning. I'm like I
- 45:53
can't walk.
- 45:54
>> Oh boy.
- 45:54
>> I have to get on a plane. I mean, I I
- 45:58
put like a hat on and sunglasses and
- 46:01
like tape my toe and like try to walk to
- 46:04
the And I'm like, I can't get a
- 46:06
wheelchair. This is like too much. So,
- 46:08
I'm like walking and I hear Amy. And I
- 46:11
look and it's Bradley Cooper.
- 46:14
The lovely Brad goes, Amy. And I'm like,
- 46:16
hey. And I look at my husband AND HE'S
- 46:18
LIKE,
- 46:18
>> "NO, it's not Amy.
- 46:20
>> So hung over." And I'm like, "Hey,
- 46:21
Bradley." He's like, "Are you okay?" And
- 46:23
I'm like, "Nope, no. very very bad. I'm
- 46:26
very very bad. And so he has to hold me
- 46:29
like an old like talk about old lady
- 46:30
like hold my elbow while like we shuffle
- 46:33
in. I got a little escort.
- 46:35
>> I got a I got an A-listister escort.
- 46:37
>> Wow.
- 46:37
>> That was a fun night.
- 46:38
>> Amy,
- 46:42
>> the last thing you want the last word
- 46:44
you wanted to hear.
- 46:45
>> Oh, but but worth it. Worth it.
- 46:49
>> I will never forget that night. Lauren
- 46:51
was Lauren was uh there and and moving
- 46:54
and grooving. We had a time.
- 46:55
>> Loves to dance.
- 46:56
>> We had a time.
- 46:57
>> Okay, let's talk about you hosting SNL,
- 46:59
though. And I mean, you're Are you a
- 47:00
fivetime?
- 47:01
>> Four. I just had my fourth. I I took I
- 47:04
did three in two years.
- 47:05
>> Mhm.
- 47:06
>> Took a 15-year hiatus.
- 47:08
>> Yeah.
- 47:09
>> And and came back this last uh this last
- 47:12
year. It's been said and I think I've
- 47:14
been listening to Seth's thing with Andy
- 47:16
and the boys, the Lonely Eye thing.
- 47:19
>> Oh, you were on it too, I think. Right.
- 47:20
Yeah,
- 47:21
>> that was an amazing your time there was
- 47:24
an amazing time. Every They're all
- 47:26
great.
- 47:28
You you you can't you literally can't
- 47:29
stack them up against another cuz
- 47:31
they're all different and they're all
- 47:31
great. But it was so fun to be there
- 47:33
with you,
- 47:35
>> with Maya.
- 47:36
>> Mhm.
- 47:38
>> Bill, Fred, Will, Kristen.
- 47:41
>> Yeah. I mean, Seth, those guys, you guys
- 47:46
were
- 47:48
I felt like we were just talk about
- 47:50
speaking the same language. It was like
- 47:52
I felt so comfortable
- 47:54
>> there.
- 47:55
>> Mhm.
- 47:55
>> Which was,
- 47:57
>> you know, part of part of it was you're
- 47:59
a guest in somebody's home,
- 48:01
>> so you don't want to be too comfortable
- 48:04
>> where you're kind of being shitty.
- 48:06
>> Um,
- 48:06
>> but I really did feel welcomed there. I
- 48:09
mean, cuz first of all, I'm sure you've
- 48:12
told this story, but pitch on Monday, my
- 48:15
first time hosting, you guys all roll in
- 48:18
in costume.
- 48:20
>> Oh, that's right. Let's tell that story.
- 48:21
So,
- 48:21
>> madman costume.
- 48:22
>> We all decide to dress up as the people
- 48:24
from for
- 48:26
>> 60s gear for pitch Monday night, which
- 48:29
is
- 48:30
35 people in a room, maybe a little bit
- 48:33
bigger than this.
- 48:34
>> Yeah. So sitting on the floor, on the
- 48:36
sofa, everything, everyone is in 1960s
- 48:40
period gear.
- 48:40
>> Yeah.
- 48:41
>> Hater was in drag.
- 48:43
>> Oh yeah.
- 48:43
>> Lutz was in drag as Joan.
- 48:45
>> Lutz was Joan. John Lutz, writer.
- 48:48
>> Paul, yes.
- 48:49
>> Had a cigarette taped to her finger
- 48:52
because she didn't know how to smoke. So
- 48:53
she's like, I just tape it. And then she
- 48:55
and she would pitch like this.
- 48:59
>> I And I was I didn't know this wasn't
- 49:01
normal,
- 49:02
>> right? I was like, "This is okay." Wow.
- 49:05
I really really do it on Mondays. I
- 49:07
thought it was a whole thing. Okay.
- 49:09
Well, nice. This is so fun.
- 49:11
>> And that was the beginning of a
- 49:13
wonderful relationship, not only with
- 49:15
that show, but with so many of you guys.
- 49:17
Um,
- 49:18
>> sitting around that whole week shooting
- 49:20
with Jim Signarelli.
- 49:22
>> You're 95 months pregnant.
- 49:24
>> Yeah. And we've told the story a million
- 49:25
million times, but the fast version is
- 49:29
Friday. I was supposed to do the show on
- 49:32
Saturday and then give birth.
- 49:33
>> And there was no doubt in your mind that
- 49:34
you were not having this baby before.
- 49:36
You were like, I'm it'll be fine.
- 49:38
>> Women listening, it's, you know, your
- 49:40
first kid. You assume you're going to be
- 49:42
a at least a few days late. I was
- 49:44
weirdly feeling good.
- 49:45
>> I was told you're not going to be giving
- 49:48
birth on before your due date. No way.
- 49:50
Go finish your last show. kill it on
- 49:52
Saturday, put your feet up.
- 49:55
>> Yeah. My first lesson in mothering,
- 49:57
which was like,
- 49:58
>> nope, nothing goes the way you think
- 50:00
it's going to go.
- 50:01
>> And I really did think I would do the
- 50:03
show on Saturday and then give birth on
- 50:06
Sunday.
- 50:07
>> And Friday night, we were shooting
- 50:10
Friday night. And um we were doing like
- 50:12
a pre-tape and I got a call from my
- 50:14
OBGYn
- 50:16
>> office of your OBGYn's office. my
- 50:18
beloved OBGYn passed away that night.
- 50:22
And so,
- 50:23
you know, for people who don't know,
- 50:24
when you get really connected to your
- 50:26
doctor and you kind of think about your
- 50:27
birth plan and you think about how it's
- 50:29
going to go and all of a sudden, you
- 50:31
know, you realize, well, you realize two
- 50:32
things. One is that a lot of people can
- 50:35
deliver a baby.
- 50:35
>> Yeah.
- 50:36
>> And two, um,
- 50:38
>> Seth had one in a lobby.
- 50:39
>> That's right. Seth Seth had his in the
- 50:41
lobby. That's right. But he didn't have
- 50:43
it.
- 50:44
>> No, he didn't have it.
- 50:46
>> Very true. He didn't have it. He wore
- 50:49
the same jeans that day that he wore the
- 50:51
next day.
- 50:52
>> Um, no. But, um,
- 50:54
>> yeah, a lot of people can do this.
- 50:55
>> And the end of the world got the news
- 50:57
that my OBGYN died. I started to cry.
- 51:00
>> I mean, heavy sobbing,
- 51:02
>> right? Which is horrifying. A giant
- 51:03
pregnant woman crying. It's not It's
- 51:05
really scary.
- 51:06
>> And Ham leaned in and said,
- 51:09
>> "I know this is hard for you. I'm
- 51:12
really, really sad. But this is a big
- 51:14
deal for me. So you better you
- 51:17
better pull your together.
- 51:19
And that's the face she made immediately
- 51:22
which I was like talk about in the world
- 51:24
of big swings. That's a big one.
- 51:27
>> That to me is and I've written about it.
- 51:29
>> That's why you had the baby. That's
- 51:31
something happened because you laughed
- 51:33
that hard.
- 51:34
>> I think so. I think a big hard laugh.
- 51:36
>> I was I was like please let this go.
- 51:38
Please let this go. Well,
- 51:40
>> and to me, the crying to laughing
- 51:42
switcheroo, that's like we get about we
- 51:46
get a few in our life where we're really
- 51:48
really deeply sad and then someone says
- 51:50
something to make us laugh and that
- 51:53
those two against each other feels like
- 51:55
I I think it extends your life.
- 51:56
>> Friday night was like cuz everybody's so
- 51:58
punchy by then.
- 52:00
>> It was and I was I wouldn't you couldn't
- 52:02
drag me out of that studio. I was having
- 52:04
the greatest time.
- 52:05
>> Yeah. I mean it it now it brings me to
- 52:07
Slatterie's question which is which I
- 52:11
thought was just such a sweet question
- 52:12
which is and kind of back to what we
- 52:14
were talking about about this idea of
- 52:16
like finding community and family in
- 52:18
places all different kinds of places but
- 52:21
he was his question to you his question
- 52:23
was like who do you look for for answers
- 52:26
when you're feeling
- 52:28
frazzled or lost because I was saying
- 52:31
you have a big brother you have a big
- 52:33
brother vibe with a lot of
- 52:35
He feels like a big brother to you, but
- 52:37
he was saying I feel like I I I think a
- 52:40
lot about like what would John do here?
- 52:42
Like he takes a lot of counsel from you.
- 52:44
Who do you look where do you go? Where
- 52:45
do you look?
- 52:46
>> That's a really good question. Um I I I
- 52:48
don't have a I I don't think I have a
- 52:50
have a go-to honestly. Um I've been
- 52:55
on my own
- 52:57
>> in one way or another for a very long
- 52:59
time.
- 53:00
>> So I I'm I'm very selfdependent. Mhm.
- 53:04
>> I think part of my therapeutic journey
- 53:07
has been sometimes to a fault where I
- 53:09
won't
- 53:10
>> reach out.
- 53:11
>> I'll just I I got it.
- 53:13
>> Yeah.
- 53:15
>> I'm learning to get better at that for
- 53:17
sure.
- 53:18
>> But people uh like Lauren for sure.
- 53:22
>> Lauren I've definitely reached out to
- 53:24
when I've had
- 53:25
>> instability in my life.
- 53:27
And you know, part of the magic of that
- 53:31
man is that it he's so inscrutable
- 53:34
and so Canadian
- 53:36
>> uh that it's a Coen in some way. You
- 53:38
know, you get some kind of weird thing
- 53:40
where you're like,
- 53:40
>> did you say Coan?
- 53:41
>> Yeah, like a Zen Coen. You know what
- 53:43
that is?
- 53:44
>> It's like a saying that you know.
- 53:46
>> How do you spell that?
- 53:47
>> K O N.
- 53:49
>> I don't know that word. Sorry. Coan.
- 53:54
I'll be interested because I I don't
- 53:55
have a great definition of
- 53:56
>> a paradoxical anecdote question or
- 53:58
dialogue.
- 53:59
>> Yeah.
- 54:00
>> Well done. Okay. Continue.
- 54:01
>> So, so he'll say, "Well, you know,
- 54:03
eventually you'll just be on the t-shirt
- 54:05
and you're like, what?"
- 54:08
>> You know, it's that thing where you let
- 54:11
go and suddenly you're finding yourself
- 54:13
on Mull Holland
- 54:15
>> and then maybe Mick will come by and
- 54:17
you'll say, "Oh, great."
- 54:20
>> Um, everybody does that. That's so
- 54:22
great. But but I people like that I I
- 54:25
find that I
- 54:28
>> very much enjoy
- 54:30
>> talking to my elders.
- 54:32
>> Yeah.
- 54:33
>> Uh I was not to be super named droppy
- 54:35
but last night had an amazing dinner at
- 54:37
the Brookheimimer's house. Jerry
- 54:38
Brookheimrimer who produced Top Gun. I
- 54:39
think you worked for Jerry. Uh I have
- 54:41
you.
- 54:42
>> Not that to my knowledge.
- 54:44
>> What's the squeaks? No, they weren't.
- 54:46
>> Oh, he was um Yeah, Jerry. I never met
- 54:48
Jerry in the booth when I was Elanor in
- 54:51
the squeak. Um, fair enough.
- 54:54
>> But Jerry, thanks for the job.
- 54:56
>> Hey,
- 54:56
>> didn't know didn't didn't know that you
- 54:58
were the person that hired me.
- 55:00
>> Thank you for the job.
- 55:01
>> Thank you for the job.
- 55:02
>> Sorry that I dressed up as Elanor when I
- 55:04
came in for the audition.
- 55:06
>> You've been in some monster hits.
- 55:08
Bridesmaids.
- 55:10
>> The town. Bridesmaids. You're so funny
- 55:11
in it. What a funny What a incredible
- 55:14
movie.
- 55:15
>> Yeah. I mean, some fun movies for sure.
- 55:17
>> Some big fun movies. I I
- 55:19
>> How did you How did you learn how to do
- 55:20
a bo accent? How did you
- 55:23
>> I don't know. Like anybody just
- 55:25
>> Not like anybody. People can't do it
- 55:26
really well.
- 55:27
>> Well, I mean I I famously did it in the
- 55:29
town, but I was making fun of Ben. That
- 55:31
was the That was part of why it was easy
- 55:33
for me. My guy wasn't supposed to be
- 55:34
from Boston, right?
- 55:35
>> When I met all those FBI guys.
- 55:37
>> Yeah.
- 55:39
>> None of them. The the Boston PD guys are
- 55:41
from Boston. The BPD, the local
- 55:42
>> Well, even the way you're saying Boston
- 55:44
is the correct way to say it. Well, I tr
- 55:47
you, Trust me, we were immersed in
- 55:50
Boston.
- 55:50
>> Oh, yeah. You do a movie in Boston.
- 55:52
Everybody's in the movie.
- 55:53
>> Yes, indeed.
- 55:54
>> Your cousin, your uncle, everybody, your
- 55:57
friend. And talk about making a movie
- 55:59
about Charles Town.
- 56:00
>> Mhm.
- 56:01
>> Holy moly.
- 56:02
>> Yeah.
- 56:02
>> Talk about the guys coming out of the I
- 56:04
You Ben told me we were going to uh you
- 56:07
were going to cast uh
- 56:08
>> Yeah.
- 56:08
>> Tommy and uh and the other guy
- 56:12
here.
- 56:12
>> We're here. Where's the paycheck?
- 56:14
>> Yeah. And where's craft service?
- 56:16
>> Yeah.
- 56:17
>> And you're like, "Nobody said you can be
- 56:20
Yeah. They said we're in the job. Don't
- 56:21
worry." Yeah. Yeah.
- 56:23
>> You're like, "Okay." We had guys that
- 56:25
would show up and then were like, "Oh,
- 56:27
but I can't shoot here. I'm on parole."
- 56:29
Like, "It's too close to a bank."
- 56:33
>> You're like, "I can't be near your
- 56:34
bank."
- 56:35
>> Okay.
- 56:36
Sorry. Oh, man. There were some
- 56:39
characters and it was a blast. It was a
- 56:41
blast. And what about um 30 Rock working
- 56:44
there? Let's uh Tina
- 56:46
>> F the show or the
- 56:47
>> Tina F discuss
- 56:48
>> Tina. I credit Tina along with Lauren
- 56:52
for allowing me to be in comedies.
- 56:55
>> Nobody thought it's not like when you do
- 56:58
Madmen they're like I bet that guy's
- 57:00
real funny.
- 57:03
>> He's probably got a bunch of impressions
- 57:05
and bits and jokes.
- 57:08
>> True. You're very serious in Mad Men. I
- 57:10
mean to Yes. So
- 57:14
>> when Lauren asked me to host the show,
- 57:17
>> I was like, "Oh my god, that's the only
- 57:19
thing I've ever wanted to do since I was
- 57:22
>> since ever was Beyond Saturday Night
- 57:25
Live." So I I was very excited. And then
- 57:28
as we discussed, you guys very
- 57:31
welcoming. Here we are. Everyone's in
- 57:33
costume. It's very funny.
- 57:35
>> The you know, read through that week,
- 57:37
the packet of 50. I think you were right
- 57:40
next to me. I can't remember where you
- 57:41
sat.
- 57:43
So, so fun.
- 57:44
>> Mhm.
- 57:45
>> And
- 57:46
then uh I I remember I think it was
- 57:49
after read or maybe it was on Thursday,
- 57:51
but I was going down to the to to 8 to
- 57:54
do blocking something and the phone in
- 57:57
my in the dressing room rings. Like
- 58:00
Jesus, that's weird. It's like when a
- 58:01
hotel phone rings. You're like, who's
- 58:02
calling me? Who's calling in the room?
- 58:04
This is very weird.
- 58:06
And I picked it up. I was like, "Hello.
- 58:08
Hello. Uh, is this John?" Yeah. Well,
- 58:11
yeah. Hi. It's Robert Carlock. We just
- 58:13
want to know if you wanted to come do
- 58:14
his thing on 30 Rock. Uh, we're It's
- 58:17
kind of a love interest for for Liz and
- 58:19
we're I was like, "Huh?" Like the other
- 58:23
thing that I wanted to be on is that.
- 58:27
And Tina, unbeknownst to me, had called
- 58:29
Lauren after readthrough and said, "Is
- 58:30
this guy funny? How is this guy as Tina
- 58:34
is want to do? Like give me the the
- 58:37
straight dope and Lauren. Yeah.
- 58:40
>> I mean, it's like when you're in that
- 58:42
space,
- 58:42
>> you'll like them. We were on parallel
- 58:44
tracks. Like we shot our pilots in the
- 58:47
same studio.
- 58:48
>> Mhm.
- 58:49
>> At at Silver Cup,
- 58:50
>> right?
- 58:50
>> Um so we kind of we were and and they
- 58:53
were they were winning for comedy and we
- 58:55
were winning for drama and it was like
- 58:56
Mad Man, Dirty Rock. Mad Man, 30 Rock
- 58:57
was great.
- 58:58
>> Well, you weren't winning, but they were
- 58:59
winning.
- 59:00
>> The show.
- 59:00
>> You were in the losers. Loser signs.
- 59:02
Thank you.
- 59:03
>> Tina's love language is writing
- 59:06
incredible material that you get to do.
- 59:08
Like that's like how she like it's like
- 59:10
it's the nicest gift is that she
- 59:13
>> I recently got a text from Tina
- 59:16
that was the beginning of my character
- 59:19
arc on the show
- 59:20
>> where I played a perfectly normal human
- 59:23
being. Now, cut to season whatever where
- 59:26
I have two hooks for hands and am fall.
- 59:31
And the reason I have hooks for hands is
- 59:32
because I thought I recognized my old
- 59:35
football coach when I was getting out of
- 59:36
a helicopter and I waved.
- 59:42
>> Yeah.
- 59:42
>> TWICE.
- 59:48
>> SO, she was like, "Remember when this
- 59:50
guy was a normal personal?" Well, we it
- 59:53
didn't last long.
- 59:54
>> Um, okay. And then the last thing, ham,
- 59:56
I want to ask you about cuz I love it is
- 59:59
I loved you at the Super Bowl enjoying
- 1:00:01
Bad Bunny and I
- 1:00:04
>> people Bad Bunny came at a time where
- 1:00:07
for a lot of people it was like we were
- 1:00:09
we're you know we're looking for
- 1:00:11
something
- 1:00:12
>> any any expression of joy would be
- 1:00:14
helpful
- 1:00:14
>> out there. Any Exactly. Any artistic
- 1:00:18
expression of joy.
- 1:00:20
I know you were a huge fan of his. You
- 1:00:22
went to like what was it like watching
- 1:00:24
that? And tell me why it was important
- 1:00:25
to you.
- 1:00:26
>> Here's why.
- 1:00:27
>> My wife Anna, who I met on the last
- 1:00:30
episode of of Madmen.
- 1:00:32
>> Okay. Can you tell everybody who she
- 1:00:34
played in the last episode,
- 1:00:34
>> she plays the receptionist of the
- 1:00:36
Eselinike place, the girl with the
- 1:00:38
pigtails.
- 1:00:39
>> Who then gets put in the Coca-Cola
- 1:00:41
commercial.
- 1:00:42
>> Yes.
- 1:00:42
>> So, this woman clearly has an effect on
- 1:00:44
Don and clearly had an effect on John.
- 1:00:47
Um, we ended up getting married at the
- 1:00:49
same place, same location.
- 1:00:52
>> No.
- 1:00:52
>> Yes, ma'am.
- 1:00:53
>> They better given you that for free.
- 1:00:55
>> We worked out a nice day.
- 1:00:58
>> Incredible.
- 1:00:59
>> It was a beautiful, magical experience
- 1:01:01
and lovely. Um, so Anna had gone
- 1:01:07
to Colombia with her sister and her best
- 1:01:09
friend on a girls trip
- 1:01:10
>> and they would go to the dance clubs at
- 1:01:13
night after dinner, whatever, and shake
- 1:01:15
their butts and have a good time. And
- 1:01:16
they were like, "This there's this this
- 1:01:18
guy that keep playing Bad Bunny."
- 1:01:20
>> No one had heard him. This is like 2018.
- 1:01:22
He wasn't even played on the regaton
- 1:01:24
stations in in in LA or New York. No one
- 1:01:27
had heard of him.
- 1:01:29
>> And we had started to kind of see each
- 1:01:31
other a little bit here and there. And
- 1:01:32
we go out in New York City and they play
- 1:01:34
me this bad. Who is this?
- 1:01:36
Our text thread is called Bad Bunnies.
- 1:01:41
That was just our first and I I was like
- 1:01:42
I dig this guy's
- 1:01:44
>> energy sound whatever.
- 1:01:46
>> So over the course of our relationship
- 1:01:49
this is the soundtrack to our
- 1:01:50
relationship really.
- 1:01:51
>> A that's so nice.
- 1:01:53
>> So it's and it's and it's just organic.
- 1:01:55
It wasn't you know so we had heard about
- 1:01:59
he had hosted the show or he was a guest
- 1:02:01
on the show on SNL.
- 1:02:03
>> Got it got to go to that.
- 1:02:05
>> We found out he was doing this residency
- 1:02:06
in Puerto Rico. Anna was like, and to
- 1:02:09
Anna's great credit, she's always like,
- 1:02:10
"What if we did that?" And it was a
- 1:02:13
blast.
- 1:02:14
>> Yeah,
- 1:02:14
>> that was the first time I went viral uh
- 1:02:16
was was in the cassita. Uh
- 1:02:19
>> dancing.
- 1:02:19
>> Dancing. Just dancing. It was fun, man.
- 1:02:22
>> He's fun.
- 1:02:23
>> He's fun. We had a dance party at at uh
- 1:02:26
>> I love girls.
- 1:02:27
>> I love dancing.
- 1:02:28
>> Me, too. And so there's, as you said,
- 1:02:32
the world was was a little
- 1:02:34
>> is
- 1:02:35
>> is a little of of a bummer.
- 1:02:38
>> A lot of a bummer.
- 1:02:39
>> A lot of a bummer.
- 1:02:40
>> Yeah.
- 1:02:40
>> But boy, man, for 15 minutes of that
- 1:02:43
halftime show.
- 1:02:44
>> Yeah.
- 1:02:44
>> No kidding.
- 1:02:45
>> And what a message. And what a And not
- 1:02:48
for nothing,
- 1:02:50
you forget that he had to perform that.
- 1:02:53
>> No kidding. I I mean,
- 1:02:54
>> you think like, oh, he's singing along
- 1:02:55
to a track or whatever. Like, no, no,
- 1:02:57
no. He was jumping off a roof, climbing
- 1:03:00
on a pole, spiking a football. You're
- 1:03:02
like
- 1:03:03
>> doing a trust fall.
- 1:03:04
>> Doing a trust fall.
- 1:03:05
>> Like a real one, not a fake one
- 1:03:09
up in the air. So much
- 1:03:11
>> 10 out of 10. No notes, perfectly
- 1:03:13
executed.
- 1:03:15
>> Then you go and you listen to the words
- 1:03:17
>> and you're like, "Oh man, that's a nice
- 1:03:20
sentiment as well."
- 1:03:21
>> Yeah. Maybe if we look back in five
- 1:03:24
years, this is the tipping point.
- 1:03:28
>> And if it is, what a kick-ass
- 1:03:31
thing to do.
- 1:03:32
>> Yeah.
- 1:03:33
>> Remind everybody that maybe together is
- 1:03:36
a little better than siloed and apart
- 1:03:38
and
- 1:03:39
>> Yeah.
- 1:03:40
>> Uh and that joy is kind of great
- 1:03:43
>> and that there's a million ways to be an
- 1:03:47
American and that music is like like
- 1:03:49
that when music does that.
- 1:03:51
>> Yeah. I feel like and I mean I I know
- 1:03:54
you feel this way about music too. Like
- 1:03:55
there's something about music that can
- 1:03:57
shortcut.
- 1:03:59
>> Yeah.
- 1:03:59
>> In a way it's a universal language. I
- 1:04:01
say it always because you it doesn't
- 1:04:03
matter what kind. It doesn't matter what
- 1:04:04
it is.
- 1:04:05
>> It can be aggressive. It can be
- 1:04:06
soothing. It can be all of the things.
- 1:04:08
But man, when it hits the right buttons
- 1:04:10
Yeah.
- 1:04:11
>> feels good.
- 1:04:11
>> Juan Hammonito
- 1:04:13
Hamito.
- 1:04:15
>> Honito
- 1:04:17
little Johnny.
- 1:04:19
>> Do you speak Spanish? I do speak Spanish
- 1:04:21
pretty well.
- 1:04:22
>> You do?
- 1:04:22
>> I do pretty well. I I've learn I learned
- 1:04:25
it in high school and then I worked in a
- 1:04:26
million restaurants in Los Angeles.
- 1:04:28
>> Yeah. And then you get really good at
- 1:04:30
>> Do you have a an accent like a Is it Do
- 1:04:33
you have
- 1:04:46
See,
- 1:04:49
and the last question I have for you is
- 1:04:51
um what are you laughing at these days?
- 1:04:54
>> What are you watching that's making you
- 1:04:55
laugh? And it can be, it doesn't have to
- 1:04:57
be recently that really made me laugh
- 1:05:00
that I think you would really like.
- 1:05:01
>> Yeah.
- 1:05:02
>> It's a show out of Canada called Heated
- 1:05:04
Revol.
- 1:05:08
>> No, it's not that. That's a bit
- 1:05:12
>> That's called a bit.
- 1:05:14
>> Um,
- 1:05:16
it's but it does have to do it is
- 1:05:17
Canadian. It does have to do with
- 1:05:18
hockey. It's a show called Shoresy.
- 1:05:20
>> Oh, I love Shoresy.
- 1:05:22
>> That is making me laugh. And you know
- 1:05:23
what? It's also making me do cry. It's
- 1:05:26
making a really It's a great show.
- 1:05:29
>> Okay. I've only watched clips of Shy
- 1:05:32
because you know I I I I've seen him on
- 1:05:35
>> six episodes a season.
- 1:05:36
>> Oh, really? Oh, I love that.
- 1:05:38
>> You can watch all of them in a half a
- 1:05:39
day.
- 1:05:40
>> And uh him. Okay, let's watch it.
- 1:05:41
>> So Jared Kiso.
- 1:05:42
>> Okay, tell me more.
- 1:05:43
>> Uh uh was on a show, created a show
- 1:05:45
called Letter Kenny.
- 1:05:46
>> Yes.
- 1:05:47
>> Which is a very very Canadian show.
- 1:05:49
>> Yes.
- 1:05:50
>> Uh but very specifically funny. Maybe
- 1:05:54
not to everyone's taste as as as as
- 1:05:56
things should be.
- 1:05:56
>> Yeah. Comedy is very subjective.
- 1:05:58
>> Subjective. And the reason he did this
- 1:06:00
was because he came to LA and they were
- 1:06:04
like, "You're too Canadian. You're too
- 1:06:05
this. You're too that." And he was like,
- 1:06:06
"Fuck it. I'm going to go back home and
- 1:06:07
I'm going to make a I'm going to make my
- 1:06:09
own show."
- 1:06:09
>> Mhm.
- 1:06:10
>> Um and he did. And then he spun it off
- 1:06:13
into this thing, Shy. And it's Shy's
- 1:06:15
about this um kind of local hero legend.
- 1:06:20
He plays on the local men's hockey team.
- 1:06:23
Mhm.
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>> And it's kind of the point of pride for
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the small town in northern Ontario that
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they live called Sudbury. And the over
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the course of the of the series, they
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they win the championship. Then he
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becomes a coach and he tries to teach
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the kids. And it's it's a tremendous
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show because it it highlights most of
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the uh people in in power that are
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running things are women.
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>> Mhm.
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>> Many of them are First Nations uh
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indigenous Canadians.
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And it's not made a big deal of it. Just
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is.
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>> Yeah.
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>> And his
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relationship to all of that while being
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this
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>> Yeah.
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>> bruiser is very soft.
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>> Yes. Yes. I mean, I've seen
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>> he's got this real high pitched voice
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and it's really kind of funny. And he
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always interrupts people.
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>> They're always interrupting. They're
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always And they're overlapping dialogue
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is really funny.
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>> It's tremendous. It's a tremendously
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ambitious show that delivers. So I I'm
- 1:07:17
trying to
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>> pump their tires a little bit. I want to
- 1:07:20
find the scenes where he's um hitting on
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uh
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>> oh when he hits on on the girl who who
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he really loves. It's so I'll make you
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feel and Laura
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>> I'll make you so happy.
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>> Okay, that's the stuff that I see and
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it's so funny. It's such a funny move.
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>> But it's also like it's also deeply
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sentimental and heartfelt.
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>> Agree. That was I was like, "Oh, I want
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to watch the show." Cuz his move, his
- 1:07:42
comedy move is like, "I'm going to love
- 1:07:44
you so hard." And she's just like, "I'm
- 1:07:46
not interested." And it's so good.
- 1:07:48
>> Sure. You're going to want to enjoy the
- 1:07:49
perks that come along with that. It's
- 1:07:51
summer and Sunday.
- 1:07:52
>> It's not playel car.
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>> We know what goes on. It's
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>> not bellow horizont.
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But I need to be sure that you're sure.
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>> Oh, so good.
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>> So good. Such a good show. Okay, we got
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to check that out. Um, well, John Ham,
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>> Amy Polar Bear.
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>> Buddy, I don't have a lot of straight
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men on the show.
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So,
- 1:08:22
>> I break down a lot I break down a lot of
- 1:08:23
doors, a lot of walls, you know. It's
- 1:08:25
nice,
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>> you know. Um, and uh I should probably
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>> But the guys you do are great. Our
- 1:08:29
buddies, too. Um,
- 1:08:30
>> great. All of our buddies.
- 1:08:32
>> Yeah, I know.
- 1:08:33
>> All of our buddies. And
- 1:08:34
>> it's it's nice to be uh first of all,
- 1:08:36
it's so great to see you. I I really do
- 1:08:39
miss you.
- 1:08:40
>> Um, we don't hang out enough, but I'm
- 1:08:42
glad we got this one in. Um, same. You
- 1:08:44
are the best in the biz
- 1:08:46
>> and um, you consistently make me smile
- 1:08:49
and happy and I look forward to your new
- 1:08:51
show which I know is coming out. I was
- 1:08:52
talking to Sh.
- 1:08:53
>> We didn't even talk about your friends
- 1:08:54
and neighbors. Season 3 coming out. It's
- 1:08:56
so great. It's so funny. Congratulations
- 1:08:59
on another big hit show for Apple.
- 1:09:01
>> Yeah, season 3 starting. We'll start
- 1:09:02
shooting that in uh in uh late April.
- 1:09:04
Season 2 will come out in early April.
- 1:09:06
And it's very fun. Fun stuff shooting in
- 1:09:09
New York City.
- 1:09:10
>> I know. But lots of nights.
- 1:09:12
>> Yeah, lots of nights. But Oh, I saw in
- 1:09:14
that first season, I was like, "Oh, you
- 1:09:15
have to break in at night time."
- 1:09:16
>> They they uh they they they they almost
- 1:09:19
broke me on that. I was like, "We got to
- 1:09:21
find a way to break into these houses
- 1:09:22
during the day.
- 1:09:25
>> Well, I'm very happy to call myself one
- 1:09:27
of your chosen sisters, Ham. I'm happy.
- 1:09:29
I'm happy to be one of them." So, thanks
- 1:09:31
for doing this.
- 1:09:32
>> Thank you, Amy. Love you.
- 1:09:33
>> Love you, too.
- 1:09:36
>> Thank you so much, John Ham. It was so
- 1:09:38
good to have you and see you and um I
- 1:09:40
love talking to you and you know um John
- 1:09:44
and I talked about a lot of things and I
- 1:09:45
mentioned a very brief anecdote about
- 1:09:48
probably my favorite actress Francis
- 1:09:50
McDormund and so for this Polar Plunge I
- 1:09:53
just wanted to remind you all how great
- 1:09:57
she is.
- 1:09:59
I just rewatched Nomad Land the other
- 1:10:01
night and oh god that is a good
- 1:10:04
performance. She's just good in
- 1:10:05
everything. She's so interesting and
- 1:10:08
smart and just so cool and uh Francis,
- 1:10:15
if you're listening,
- 1:10:17
I love you. Um, never change, please.
- 1:10:20
Uh, I'm just a big fan of your work. And
- 1:10:23
um, and check out Francis's work.
- 1:10:29
You know, it's these kind of polar
- 1:10:30
punges. Thank you, Francis, for your
- 1:10:32
work. And thank you, John Ham, for
- 1:10:34
coming today and for your work. And
- 1:10:36
thank you just for Oh my god, I don't
- 1:10:39
know how to end this. Okay, bye
- 1:10:40
everybody.
- 1:10:43
You've been listening to Good Hang. The
- 1:10:45
executive producers for this show are
- 1:10:46
Bill Simmons, Jenna Weiss Berman, and
- 1:10:48
me, Amy Polar. The show is produced by
- 1:10:50
The Ringer and Paperkite. For The
- 1:10:52
Ringer, production by Jack Wilson, Cat
- 1:10:54
Spalain, Kaia McMullen, and Aia Xanerys.
- 1:10:57
for Paperkite production by Sam Green,
- 1:11:00
Joel Levelvel, and Jenna Weiss Berman.
- 1:11:02
Original music by Amy Miles.
- 1:11:05
>> Want a really good Hey